And in case guys are wondering why it's done this way, it's because a 1pm appointment can mean a knock on the door anywhere from an hour early to two hours late. If he doesn't know where the door is, then you don't have to worry about it.

The destination of the first call will be close but gives you a few minutes to do a "places everybody" make up touch up, mouthwash swish, or deal with an emergency (my hair caught on fire when I was trying to light candles once... oh the smell!) for when you get the second call. You know exactly how long it should take to get to the door from the second call AND you know for sure he's coming (I've had clients get in "car accidents" on the way!) without your actual location being disclosed.

For outcall, I like to text when I leave to head out and give an eta, then I call when I'm close, and text when I've arrived (especially a hotel... I like to have the room number as a text so I don't knock on the wrong door!). I don't like sitting there wondering when the knock is going to happen for incall and I'm sure guys don't either for outcall, so clear, thorough communication is a great start to a relaxed, stress-free visit!