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Re: Isn't it...
Tonyarts 2 Reviews 812 reads
posted
1 / 14

I'm a "massage only" kind of guy. I don't do Full Service or Oral. I like to give/receive massage and leave with a happy ending. Since the rules of TER state  the highest score I can give for performance is a 7, do Providers want me to review them??? It may bring the Providers averaged score down.

AWomanLikeNoOther 452 reads
posted
2 / 14

based on whether the service is offered AT ALL, not whether or not you take them up on it?

Tonyarts 2 Reviews 253 reads
posted
3 / 14

Posted By: AWomanLikeNoOther
based on whether the service is offered AT ALL, not whether or not you take them up on it?
I guess what I'm asking is... would you, as a provider, be upset that I gave you a 7 in performance when other Men are rating you much higher. I would probably give a higher rating but I did not experience FS or BJ.

casinostocks 7 Reviews 995 reads
posted
4 / 14

While giving reviews is your choice (a privilege of some sort, since not all reviews are approved), it still does not hurt to indicate to the provider that you are pro giving reviews. The other thing is, if it is a FBSM that you are going for, most season providers should already be familiar with the TER scoring system. Plus, you can always mention in the body of your review that the 7 score is because of how TER's scoring structure is set up, otherwise you'd score that provider's performance to be: 7 + (add a number of your choice between 0-3) Now whether that review gets approved, it is a different matter ;)

CaseySterling See my TER Reviews 283 reads
posted
5 / 14

So can I ask how you get "a happy ending" without them performing oral on you? Nice conversation and a sexy smile? lol

I don't think ter.com is the best place to review massage only girls. There has to be some strictly massage girl websites out there to review them on. I mean the big portion of the review rates have to do with sexual things."touch pussy....kiss....etc"  I also don't think it would be fair to her if she is massage only and you can only rate as high as a 7 because she does not offer FS or BJ.

I would simply ask her "would you mind me reviewing you?" most girls will say yes, but she might say no. I have guys say all the time that they didn't know they could review me.

PS. Is this girl certified masseuse? I'm just curious as I have wanted to try and break into giving massages in sexy outfits for particular new clients who do not want FS.

scoed 8 Reviews 281 reads
posted
6 / 14

Hand job, she beats him off. A good hand job is almost as good as full service.

IMALLIN 82 Reviews 468 reads
posted
7 / 14

Imagine the guy who hires a provider to do nothing more than go out to dinner with him. Nothing wrong with that if that's what he's looking for. Technically, he can write a review. "I'm giving her a 2. She was a lousy conversationalist, and wouldn't you know the bitch ordered the most expensive thing on the menu".

You could give her a higher score than 7 if she offers the services that qualify her for it. Giving a 10 for a mutual massage would look kind of funny though.

Tonyarts 2 Reviews 861 reads
posted
8 / 14

Posted By: highheelbarbie
So can I ask how you get "a happy ending" without them performing oral on you? Nice conversation and a sexy smile? lol

I don't think ter.com is the best place to review massage only girls. There has to be some strictly massage girl websites out there to review them on. I mean the big portion of the review rates have to do with sexual things."touch pussy....kiss....etc"  I also don't think it would be fair to her if she is massage only and you can only rate as high as a 7 because she does not offer FS or BJ.

I would simply ask her "would you mind me reviewing you?" most girls will say yes, but she might say no. I have guys say all the time that they didn't know they could review me.

PS. Is this girl certified masseuse? I'm just curious as I have wanted to try and break into giving massages in sexy outfits for particular new clients who do not want FS.
I've seen many Providers that normally provide FS but in my case I don't request more than mutual massage and a hand job. Only one was a CMT but she was FBSM and only allowed touching... "above the belt". We did take a bath together first and that was very relaxing.

In response to your question, It's not necessary for the Provider to be a CMT. Sometimes I only give a massage. It's very powerful to give and be the one "providing". It seems to play off my dominating side.

AWomanLikeNoOther 507 reads
posted
9 / 14

I'd be really upset. Your partaking- or not- of what I actually offer should not affect the way I am rated. In other words, I shouldn't be penalized (especially not by so much) because YOU did not utilize my services fully.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 3642 reads
posted
10 / 14

When I am looking for a good massage/tantra situation, I take that into account regarding the numerical scores and look at what the reviews say.

Without a doubt, several of the most erotic session I've ever had were with a good non FS tantrika or massage gal.

It's not always the "what", it's more the "how".

Tonyarts 2 Reviews 2721 reads
posted
11 / 14

Posted By: olivialv
Allow me to clarify for you, how we "massage girls" are not much different than FS providers, such as yourself. All of us provide a very intimate act with our clients, whether there is FS or not. So, for you to say that "the big portion of the review rates have to do with sexual things", you clearly don't understand the scope of FBSM work. It is much, much more than putting on a sexy outfit and attempting to massage a person. A true connoisseur of FBSM does not want that, actually. Massage work is not easy, as you appear to think. It is draining, requires A LOT of energy, both emotional and physical, if it is done correctly.

We absolutely fill a niche of clients who don't desire FS, though still need some kind of intimate and therapeutic connection. I actually took offence to your "Nice conversation & sexy smile" comment. Because my endings rival, if not surpass, oral. The stellar conversation and sexy smile is a bonus. And I have the reviews to back that up :)
I'm an idiot!!!

I just REREAD the rules on reviewing and I AM allowed to give a higher score even if I don't partake in the act offered. So sorry to everyone and this is proof I'm still a "Newbie".

PS - I never commented on "Nice conversation & sexy smile". I've found my experiences with Providers to be VERY fulfilling and I've had a great time in the hobby. That comment was posted by another bloke.

Cheers everyone!

Tonyarts 2 Reviews 538 reads
posted
12 / 14

Posted By: mrfisher
When I am looking for a good massage/tantra situation, I take that into account regarding the numerical scores and look at what the reviews say.

Without a doubt, several of the most erotic session I've ever had were with a good non FS tantrika or massage gal.

It's not always the "what", it's more the "how".
I couldn't agree more!
That's exactly what I wanted to say. :)

keystonekid 114 Reviews 802 reads
posted
13 / 14

Olivia, you are a very attractive lady who has good reviews.  If I were in LV, I would be sure to experience your touch.

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