Newbie - FAQ
1) Do not believe the cheapo hobbyist that tell you because you have no reviews that you should not be asking X amount.
Do the research in your area and get the average price and start off with that then as soon as you find ur booked solid or get too many app for the times you want to work raise your rates the ones who know what theyre doing can probably help you out more with this.
2) Do not start off cheap
As in the cheapest one on the site because your new. You will get the scum and "bottle of the barrel" men contacting you and trying to haggle even more lower then you already are because they will think you are desperate enuf to do it. The kind of clients you want will respect you and your rates because they like you and they like way you look and will pay what you ask as long as its a reasonable rate as stated above 
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3) Obvi -but just throwing it out there- have a clean body always shower after EVERY CLIENT and keep your place spotless. Have a sexy classy presentable workspace
4) Always look your best cute nice clothes hair makeup nails etc.
As far as what to wear thats up to you just not jeans and t-shirt type stuff but wearing sexy clothes bra pantie set or just having them be matchy or lingerie. High heels at the door. Dunno why guys like this so much but just get a pair to wear inside so you can wear them at the door to the bed.
5) Know what your boundaries are set them do not change them
Doing something you dont like will turn the guy off because he can tell your not into it and having fun guys paid you for a good fun time. If your not enjoying it theyre not enjoying. If he cant respect you and your boundaries then hes not someone worth your time.
6) If your doing things right and do not need to be desperate enuf to push thru burnout and just keep working take time off when you dont feel like working
I epicaly messed up I havent been enjoying do this for a long time (witch Is why I'm taking a break and found a mentor thank you if your reading this you know who u r =^Y^=) but if you dont make the same mistakes I did and ur smart with your money and have savings and stuff you will have the money to take the time off when you dont feel like working. When things were good for me because I was dumb with my money and didnt save my money I would just work to get my rent food for me and my cat other bills etc and not work for weeks on end sometimes or until my stuff was due again. Its called burnout it does happen but if you try to push thru it and keep working your performance will suck (and possibly get bad reviews) and you will turn into a b!itch on the phone with your client at the door and other bad stuff
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7) Theres a thread on here I think its in the general section a hobbyist asked if the other hobbyist liked girls with pro piks all dolled up and stuff or homey "real" pix. From what I got out of it guys like a mix of pro UNTOUCHED pix and basic homey pix. I would think not the :bathroom mirror Im taking pix with my cell" pix either but like get a friend or something with a nice phone cam or digicam. So start off with some homey pix then work up to being able to get a photo shoot and get some pro pix and dont have them airbrushed
8) Get on social media especially a website
Website twitter facebook etc join everything you can any to reach out to your clients is good promo. Its important when your new and just basic business practice. THIS IS A BUSINESS AND YOU ARE THE PRODUCT WORK IT GIRL! :P .
A website to start off with is so very important list your hours rates your limits etc. I have had some guys stand me up Im pretty sure because of the fact I dont have a website. It a way to let them know your real and not a scam fly by night provider. Theres some websites for escorts with preloaded templates and stuff there in another thread somewhere forgot where I saw it :/.
9) Learn how to screen your cleints
VERY important to keep yourself safe from LE (law enforcement) and ppl ur better off not seeing . Theres screening websites and other methods as well I never screened so I dont know much about them but I wish I did when I was 'active'
10) Learn your local boards
As well as websites that are well known (like Backpage) theres also indie run provider sites that are for a specific city or metro area. Do a search for "your city" + escorts then you'll find pages with your local boards on them.
Thats all I got hope it helped
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Do the research in your area and get the average price and start off with that then as soon as you find ur booked solid or get too many app for the times you want to work raise your rates the ones who know what theyre doing can probably help you out more with this.
2) Do not start off cheap
As in the cheapest one on the site because your new. You will get the scum and "bottle of the barrel" men contacting you and trying to haggle even more lower then you already are because they will think you are desperate enuf to do it. The kind of clients you want will respect you and your rates because they like you and they like way you look and will pay what you ask as long as its a reasonable rate as stated above
. 3) Obvi -but just throwing it out there- have a clean body always shower after EVERY CLIENT and keep your place spotless. Have a sexy classy presentable workspace
4) Always look your best cute nice clothes hair makeup nails etc.
As far as what to wear thats up to you just not jeans and t-shirt type stuff but wearing sexy clothes bra pantie set or just having them be matchy or lingerie. High heels at the door. Dunno why guys like this so much but just get a pair to wear inside so you can wear them at the door to the bed.
5) Know what your boundaries are set them do not change them
Doing something you dont like will turn the guy off because he can tell your not into it and having fun guys paid you for a good fun time. If your not enjoying it theyre not enjoying. If he cant respect you and your boundaries then hes not someone worth your time.
6) If your doing things right and do not need to be desperate enuf to push thru burnout and just keep working take time off when you dont feel like working
I epicaly messed up I havent been enjoying do this for a long time (witch Is why I'm taking a break and found a mentor thank you if your reading this you know who u r =^Y^=) but if you dont make the same mistakes I did and ur smart with your money and have savings and stuff you will have the money to take the time off when you dont feel like working. When things were good for me because I was dumb with my money and didnt save my money I would just work to get my rent food for me and my cat other bills etc and not work for weeks on end sometimes or until my stuff was due again. Its called burnout it does happen but if you try to push thru it and keep working your performance will suck (and possibly get bad reviews) and you will turn into a b!itch on the phone with your client at the door and other bad stuff
. 7) Theres a thread on here I think its in the general section a hobbyist asked if the other hobbyist liked girls with pro piks all dolled up and stuff or homey "real" pix. From what I got out of it guys like a mix of pro UNTOUCHED pix and basic homey pix. I would think not the :bathroom mirror Im taking pix with my cell" pix either but like get a friend or something with a nice phone cam or digicam. So start off with some homey pix then work up to being able to get a photo shoot and get some pro pix and dont have them airbrushed
8) Get on social media especially a website
Website twitter facebook etc join everything you can any to reach out to your clients is good promo. Its important when your new and just basic business practice. THIS IS A BUSINESS AND YOU ARE THE PRODUCT WORK IT GIRL! :P .
A website to start off with is so very important list your hours rates your limits etc. I have had some guys stand me up Im pretty sure because of the fact I dont have a website. It a way to let them know your real and not a scam fly by night provider. Theres some websites for escorts with preloaded templates and stuff there in another thread somewhere forgot where I saw it :/.
9) Learn how to screen your cleints
VERY important to keep yourself safe from LE (law enforcement) and ppl ur better off not seeing . Theres screening websites and other methods as well I never screened so I dont know much about them but I wish I did when I was 'active'
10) Learn your local boards
As well as websites that are well known (like Backpage) theres also indie run provider sites that are for a specific city or metro area. Do a search for "your city" + escorts then you'll find pages with your local boards on them.
Thats all I got hope it helped
-- Modified on 11/21/2012 12:30:59 AM
-- Modified on 11/21/2012 12:51:13 AM
-- Modified on 11/21/2012 1:14:19 AM
-- Modified on 11/21/2012 1:45:44 AM
Thank you so much I made a lot of mistakes no I m trying to reinvent myself and start fresh again