I see all these posts about DATY and STIs, but I have not seen a post saying anything about the risk of DIGITS.. I mean sure it may seem harmless but what if:

You start with some good digits, she has something and her juices is on your hand/fingers.. You put the condom on using those very same hands (if she puts the condom on then forget the last sentence).. Full service time, when you are close, you pull the condom off to finish with a CIM/COF/COB using that very same hand..  I know some would say let the provider finish you off using their hands, but when you're in the moment, You might forget these principles.. I know I have. Can any clarify the risks as I have researched but still cannot find an answer.

I think the risks would be juicy fingers and hand.

Its up to you to decide your risk tolerance.   Things you can do;

1) Go for a CBJ and not a BBBJ.

2) Do not DATY, or as Mr. Fisher suggested, use a dental dam. Also do not engage in oral if either of you has a cold sore.  Herpes is herpes.

3) Bring antibacterial hand wipes with you and use them between activities and ask the lady to do so also.  Or get up and wash your hands.

4) Avoid the body slide and genital-to-genital contact.

5) Use the right size condom.  Some guys ask for Magnums, as they feel better, but really need a smaller condom.

6). Pull out immediately after orgasm.  It may feel good staying inside, but when "things" return to normal size, the condom can slip off.

7) Take a shower when you are done.

These are all ways to minimize the risk, but abstinance remains the only "risk free" alternative.

You have to decide what risks you are willing to take and what you can do to minimize them.