Do providers hate um, shy inexperienced guys

hate? no
but as a newbie you may find it more difficult to get started for lack of references. Do a search here  for references---there are plenty of threads about it.

Based on some postings, it appears that some providers even take pride in helping newbies/inexperienced/shy guys (which are not interchangeable--you can be one or two of the three) through the experience. Just be honest about it when you contact the provider about your situation. Some may want to avoid it, but others may even look more forward to it!

The thing to realize is that many of these providers take very serious pride in their work. They are there to serve you and give you a positive experience – a mind-blowing experience if possible. They want you to be happy, and will go to great lengths to make you happy.

Of course they see all types, so i doubt there is much that can phase an experienced provider.

You should just find one of these great providers and put yourself in her hands. Let her rock your world. Quickly you won't be so inexperienced. Good luck.

Who do you think a lady would rather see:

1. A shy inexperienced guy who will take direction and try to please them why pleasing himself.

or

2. A Half Drunk Viagra Fueled Jerk who tries to pound them through the bed for an hour?


I am guessing they love to see guys like you.

Shy?  ...and sweet?  ...maybe breathless?

Sounds fantastic!  Take a deep breath, be safe, and have fun!

and, if we know its your first time, we go out of our way to put you at ease so that your nervousness does not get in the way of an enjoyable experience.

Plus, lets face it, you always remember your first!!! *wink*

Providers DO NOT hate shy, inexperienced guys. Dude, they love you! Tell her your situation, let her have her way with you, and you'll be cured!

I would encourage you to tell the lady you want to see that you are somewhat shy and inexperienced.  Most ladies will then make sure they put you at ease and that you have  a great time.