Is there a way on TER to find if a verification site is ok to use and give info too? It came from a BP response.

with some of the verification sites. Date-Check and Preferred411 seem to be the ones that most of us rely on. RS2K is also a good one if you live in the Midwest. (Chicago area) I've heard of some that ask for your SS#. Yikes, don't ever give that out. Others will run a scam by offering you a $1 fee, but once they have your credit card number, will charge you monthly for shit you didn't order.

What's the name of the site?

Be careful

You were right hungry1951, after a google search and research I found that the verification site was bogus, and they would hit your cc with membership fee and leave you with bad phone number. All newbie be aware and be careful.