So, while I am not new to the hobby, I am new to what I'm about to ask.

Having lived a somewhat sexually repressed life, I am just now getting a handle on the sorts of things I really like, and as such, have begun to think of things I'd really like if providers wear, or specific behaviors.  Nothing particularly out of the ordinary (yet ) but enough that it prompts me to ask -

When is the right time to bring this up?  Obviously not in the initial contact, but then, when?  If I want to ask a provider to wear a specific sort of outfit, color, or to enact a particular sort of behaviors (I am discovering I love being teased, for example) - when do I bring this up?

Is there a standard for this or am I overthinking things and it's ok to put it in the initial email/phone call?

attire is easy  - ask
nothing wrong with asking
a good girl will typically ask you first


as for fantasy-
bring it up when you are there
this time of year-
girls get tweaked and over think things too -
they may get red flags day of your call and not decide to see you  -

dont feel weird bringing up a fantasy face to face-
remember, its your fantasy- but our everyday life of pleasing men with fantasies

Ps/ if your fantasy really is being teased and an escort doesnt tease you the first 35-45 minutes of an hour appointment.- please dont see her again.. Thank you  

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Attire - just ask eh.  Okee.

Fantasy - makes sense.. that's actually a great point and really what I was more curious about.


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Hah!  Good to see

P.S., thank you!

Your the one we're pleasing, if you have a certain request and we can do it for you ..trust me we will! We want to make your time with us something you won't forget, and if your not getting what you want with your SO or the woman in your life, this is the exact reason why you come to us, so ask away because "dress up"  is alot of fun, for both you and us!
Jay

providing that they are giving sufficient notice.  On the way to an appointment may not be the best time to ask her to wear a particular outfit.

Also, keep in mind, that the lady will accomodate you providing that she has the outfit you requested.  I've had gentlemen ask for some very particular requests; a red suit (I don't own one), a designer evening gown from my site (I save these for dinner dates at nice restaurants), or for a costume such as a "school girl" outfit, a "nurses" outfit or a "cheerleader's" costume (I do not own these) or latex (which I personally hate as you have to cover yourself in powder to slide it on).  (I do not own these)  A pink negligee (I have white, black, red, leopard print).  

If you have something very specific in mind, and its important to you that the lady wears an outfit exactly as you envision, you may need to find out her size and bring the outfit.  Its impossible, and not cost efficient, to run out an buy an outfit for every client request.

As for fantasies, this is something you definitely want to discuss with the provider.  Some providers are comfortable with role play, others are not.  Not everyone is a born actress and, unless the provider is really into it, it won't be as much fun as you imagined.

Just my thoughts.  Have fun in your erotic adventures.

I don't express anything other than date, time and duration until I've gotten through the screening.  Once cleared, if I've got requests (other than clothing), I ask the lady if I could make them now, or wait until we're together.

I talk to the the provider about special requests for the next session.

and the screening process has been completed.  Other requests are made during conversation either on the phone prior to the date or at the date itself.  

Usually the lady will say, "Now, what do you like?"  Some of the better GFE's have read several of your reviews and know what you like.