They hobby because they are not getting "something" at home, (present company excluded)

I know of a hobbyist who will only hobby for trips to greece, and nothing else.

Go satisfy your foot fetish and enjoy.

Hello I am new to this. I am curious as to how many people hobby while married and why. I am happily married but am thinking of seeing a provider for a certain fetish my wife doesn't care for..involves feet. Not looking for bj or fs just a fj. Should I feel bad about doing this or is this something alot of married guys do?
What do you think?

I've been married for nine years, and hobbying for the last two years or so. Why, you asked? Because in that time my wife doubled her body weight, stopped giving out BJs, and last year only had sex with me four times. Which is fine with me- I had more sex with my ATF last year than my wife. So, no, I don't personally feel bad about getting it on the side.

I don't know if most are married, I'd hazard a guess than maybe 50% are married? Granted, I have no idea.

said that 49% of those polled were married.
Interesting that most of the hobbyists I know are married.

Some people do it be uase they are missing a certain connection at home. I love my family but sometimes I need to get away and be appreciated by someone from time to time.

if I was married, that is.

You think that, like I did, until your wife gets fat, stops fucking except a few times a month, MAYBE, no bj's worth a damn, spontaneity stops, and you've asked over and over for better. By that time, maybe you have kids you don't wanna walk out on, etc. so you get a little action on the side.

Trust me, I NEVER thought in a million years I'd be doing this until I was in that boat..

But since the poll was contributed to by hobbyists, I can't discount it either.

I was wondering howl long it would take to get that response.LOL!

I suspect many of the guys that hobby married are at the end of the relationship anyway i.e. about to get divorced, been married a long time and time has not been kind to the union.There are always understandable circumstances.

It goes to the issue of monogamy and just how much "cheating' goes on in societies in every country around the world for the past 500 years!


However, I can only speak for myself. If I'm going to get married and have sex with other women 6 months later why bother? Can you hear me Mr. Woods?

and the last 5 of them were totally sexless.  The rest of the marriage is still good.

Its not that it would likely be only six months later- its 5-10 years later, and maybe 40+ pounds on the wife later. And I rather tend to think that cheating, as you put it, has been going on for thousands of years.

Actually, I find that the lack of sex impacts every interaction with my wife in a negative way, and pretty much all the time. In fact, if not for the kids I would have bailed on her several years ago.

Well, the problem is medical issues on her side.  Not her choice.

OK, I guess you'd have to give her a pass on that one...

The topic caught my eye so I thought I'd share my $0.02.

As a young kid, I never considered seeing an escort.  I was nervous as hell my first time and didn't go back again for 1 year.  Even after a few years, I still felt some reservations after the deed, of course.

I stopped hobbying for 1 year when I started dating my wife.  My wife is the best sex partner I've ever had in terms of physical beauty, intimacy and knowing what buttons to press.  However, I started missing the thrill of new pussy and resumed hobbying and have continued selectively for many years.

Being married to the right person is a true blessing but I think it's naive to have some idyllic view of marriage.  As I've grown older and wiser (now after 18 years of on-and-off hobbying), I think that I (and perhaps others) just find that sex is a real passion/pleasure that is no different than golf, eating fine food/wine, going on vacations, etc.  It makes me a happier well balanced, husband and father.  If anything, I'm only disappointed that it took me a while to realize the societal guilt that is so prevalent in our society in the U.S. was just full of sh*t and I lost too many years of great hobbying.

P.S.  Tiger Woods' issue is that he should have been upfront with his wife about his passion for new pussy and been selective with only ultra high end escorts and/or mistresses rather than banging a Perkins waitress or random club girls, especially in his house.

+1

goes your wife know you hobby?