I have no problem with a follow-up text or email.  In fact, I think it's a nice touch.  There are guys who will actually complain if they DON'T hear from a provider after the appointment with some sort of follow-up.  Of course, there are also men who feel that any contact whatsoever other than the actual booking process is out of line.

Ahh I'm back again!

Is there an etiquette standard when it comes to following up with a client? I like to send a quick text or email within 12-24 hours following a date with something to the effect of "I had a great time, hope you did as well!" just because I think it's a nice thing to do, but is that considered uncouth or anything? I wouldn't want to overstep my bounds.

The reason I don't suggest calling or texting, is because you just never know who he is with after he sees you. It is logical to assume that 20 min. drive will have him alone, so that is when I would do it. Literally, RIGHT AFTER he leaves.

There is nothing like getting a personal, warm thank you from a lady either that night or the next day. Guys love to be feel appreciated. Its not just good business to say thank you, its also the right thing to do, especially if you were treated well and had a nice time. London's correct. email is def way to go. Its a little extra special too when I get home from seeing her and that email is already in my inbox. Just my 2 cents!

Good call. Thanks love!

Send a thank you right after I see the gent by email only or via P411 messaging system but not by text.
I know every lady does not do this but I think it is a nice touch especially if you had a good time.
I would suggest sending an email right after the appt and no text.

I also send a quick email of thanks. I want the lady to know I appreciated our time together. Would welcome a text or email from the lady as well.

E mail is much better, my hobby phone is off 99% of the time and I might not even have your number saved in it. I find e mail works well and try to thank the lady for a good appointment within the next day as well.

... gesture on your part.

As long you don't include things like your week's specials or offer a discount on the next visit. That would look like a sales tactic and guys don't care for that.

Serpius

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

Ahh I'm back again!

Is there an etiquette standard when it comes to following up with a client? I like to send a quick text or email within 12-24 hours following a date with something to the effect of "I had a great time, hope you did as well!" just because I think it's a nice thing to do, but is that considered uncouth or anything? I wouldn't want to overstep my bounds.

Granted I was raised to write a thank you note for everything but an email or text saying I had a great time or thank you for the gift etc. is the best way to ensure I'll be seeing that lady again. I very rarely judge a provider based on the first date (unless it was horrible) because chemistry can take some time. But IF I've left a nice tip or gift and DON'T get a thank you of some kind... there will be no second date regardless of how well the first date went.

but it doesnt always happen. I always send a follow up thank you email to the lady after an appointment. Sometimes I get a reply thanking me also. Occasionally she beats me to it and I get a note from the lady first (which is always a pleasant and welcome surprise!) and sometimes I dont get a response to my thank yous, which is a little disapointing as a simple youre welcome would suffice. As small as these gestures are, it does sometimes affect my desire to repeat with a lady or not.

(sorry for the punctuation issues. My quotation and apostrophe key just stopped working for some odd reason. lol)

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I usually send one myself. Haven't had a lady send me one yet but probably because I beat her to it.

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

Ahh I'm back again!

Is there an etiquette standard when it comes to following up with a client? I like to send a quick text or email within 12-24 hours following a date with something to the effect of "I had a great time, hope you did as well!" just because I think it's a nice thing to do, but is that considered uncouth or anything? I wouldn't want to overstep my bounds.

I have seen Jaydalee, She is a complete pleasure to be with and yeah she emailed me a message thanking me for a nice evening !! I thought it was a nice touch and appreciated it !! Classy !!

but the hobby phone is turned "off" when I enter the lady's incall and not turned on again until the next encounter is being planned; which may be several weeks down the road.

There is no standard protocol.  Let's put it that way.

My Hobby Phone is off before & call log clear before I leave her.  I usually send her a Thankyou within 24 hours.  Most often I don't get a reply.  It should be discreet...  no reason to be explicit.  Something nice like "I had a good time, hope to see you again."  would be welcome.

My 2 cents. again.

Like London says, if you do decide to text, its best to do it right after your appointment.  For me, I never text or call at all after an appointment unless a client has called/texted me.

I do however do my best to always follow up with-in a day after an appointment and to say thank you and to let them know they can use me as a reference and it was a pleasure meeting them.  So I think its just fine to email and maybe just adopt a email-only policy when you follow up.  Just to make sure.

Keep up the good work girl and asking questions.  I know, I got a lot of advice from asking on the discussion boards as well.

Sincerely...


*Kendall*

I will often initiate a follow up myself if I enjoyed the lady's company.  I see no problem receiving a thank you.  If you send it the same means you were communicating before the appointment, it should be fine.  If the gent has a problem with that, he should consider how he makes contact to hobby.

Hahahahaha OR I could email you right after the date and say "Dude, you totally overpaid me!" because I wasn't expecting a tip.

Best response ever.

Re: My 2 cents. again.

Kendall you're always so sweet and helpful...much love!

I didn't know that you were married.

Some lucky guy that he is!

Serpius

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl

Re: I would send it right after if you are texting. Email is better. Good call. Thanks love!

only if I did something out of the ordinary for you, a favor.