decent references so that he can continue to cancel at the last minute or be a no show?  

Newbie ladies, be sure your screening methods are top shelf and you are getting references from ladies a hobbyist has seen.

I do not continue canceling, and have never been a no-show.  What a huge mistake it was apparently, admitting my fault to the community in an attempt to reach others doing the same thing and maybe 1 or 2 of them might think about it and make a change..of all the people who have read my posts since 12 hours ago, not 1 of you had the pair on to step up and admit to doing the same thing...

Though I will applaud the venom I have clearly stirred up out there in a couple individuals who clearly disdain this type of behavior

Chicks totally dig that know it all garbage. I'm surprised you weren't privvie to such tasty hobby 411 KK.

Did it really take all this time and that many people telling you the same thing to finally reach that conclusion for yourself?

and just why would anyone "step up" just to make YOU feel better about your own bad behavior? Do you honestly believe yours is the first post on the subject? Dick size, NCNS, "I have fallen for a provider" and no AA's are probably the most discussed topics on the boards. Rarely a day goes by that "someone" doesn't make a post complaining about NCNS or cancellations from either the hooker or the john side of the issue. Do you really think that post number 1,432 on the subject is going to be the one that makes people take stock of themselves?

You are a Newbie, it's not your place to preach on this board, this board is for you to ASK questions as you should be trying to learn, not teach.

...so we agree, NCNS are not good.    your comment, "why would anyone "step up" just to make YOU feel better about your own bad behavior?"  SMH...I told you why I posted this.  Who cares if it does't accomplish my goal?"  

TER is global.  Maybe one day thousands of years from now civilization will have evolved to the point of having the ability to synchronize a complex and detailed plan for engaging in our hobby, complete with do's and don't's, etiquette, back-channel research, etc...

Until that day arrives, herd instinct reigns supreme.  Morons like myself who ask stupid questions, in isolation are morons.  But within the herd, morons are plentiful