Newbie - FAQ

IS it ok to see the same provider in the Beginning
Goldenlight 20 Reviews 2835 reads
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If I find a provider I clicked with, is it ok to see her often, since I am still new to this. I currently have one legit independant reference that I found off of date check, and I have one agency reference which I am sure will expire if I don't use them in a while.

new girls. Those guys are one and done no matter how much they liked the lady

Others stick to the same one and get into P4P LTR.

Also I think once you are with an agency you can go back whenever you want. In general they don't screen as much as indys, of course there are many exceptions both ways.

shudaknownbetter1438 reads

but I caution you (personal experience) that it is very easy to have strong feelings for someone you have great sex with.  This is good for the continuation of the species but hard on the emotions.  I found I had to take a break from my Fav Lady...  to get my emotions under control.  (LG has many posts of gents falling for providers...  if it truly happens, I won't say it never works out but rarely.)  Falling for a provider is CROSSING THE LINE.  If she feels you are, she may break it off & refuse to see you at all.

I now see a few Fav Ladies.  I more or less rotate them.  I might see one a couple of times but then move to another for a time or 2.  Every now & then I try a new Lady from my bucket list.  

Keep your head on straight.
Happy Hobbying,
skb

And I'll tell you why.  As the other posts have said it's very easy to get attached to the first lady you see, especially if you have a great time. I would recommend you say 5 or 6 ladies, don't repeat, then if you truly lucky and find an ATF you're a lucky guy. There was just a post on the LA board, a guy is skirting the line between P4P and GF. And he has over 100 reviews. Feelings can happen that go over the line,  at any time. However, it is more likely to happen when you're a newbie. At the end of a session resist asking to see the lady again. Variety in the beginning of your hobby career is important
Good luck, and remember to see only well reviewed TER ladies.

with the first escort I ever saw, and have seen her several times since. She's still very special, but I also saw several ladies in between visits with her. I think that if your just starting out, it would be very easy to develop an attachment to one of your first ladies. I would recommend seeing other ladies as well.

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