use common sense I only have a phone and email  never though my casual venture down this rabbit hole would become so all consuming nor as much fun what I do to save issues post my rate it is there easy to see i rarely discuss or turn things into an auction this has worked on for me and into if ever some one asks yes i can tell but for my time and undivided attention. no I do not go into details if ya want me to be your good fun friend well HELLO chill the f out.. it is a 2 way street 0 red flags for me 0 for you and all will be ok ....