correct..i never use the Pre-approval method..it makes me feel like a time waster..which i am not..i always choose a lady who suits me and send in a Appointment request form..they view your profile and get back to you almost immediately..P411 is the best..
I have identified a few local providers in my area that I'd like schedule time with. I have been verified on p411, but no references yet. Some of the Providers do indicate "newbie friendly". I'm in a non-major city, so some limitations there. I have gone the route of requesting Pre-Approvals. Getting no responses. Is Pre-Approvals not the way to go? Is that my mistake? The more I read here, the more i get the sense that Providers are bombarded with time-wasters...maybe Pre-Approvals makes me appear as a time-waster? Maybe I'm just not being patient enough? I appreciate any advice. Thanks.
I am newbie friendly with personal info. that I must handle directly. Though I love P411, they are not who I am most worried about. The guy knows that only Gina has that info. and what is to stop him from hurting or outing me, knowing I can't do anything but have him banned from some screening site?
So, just because they say that on a site, does not mean they are going to see you with no information in addition to P411 saying you are verified. I would not mind doing that for guys in another state, but not locally. I want to KNOW exactly who I am seeing before doing so.
I don't think you'll be viewed as a time waster just for pre-screening, but some women may not bother with that request if it is a month or more out. I've never been one to mind advance bookings, but I certainly can't keep up with who wants one six months from now. It's simply not a priority to me without a deposit letting me know it is even going to happen. I generally like to plan in the 30 day window unless it's a serious trip that requires hotel and airfare.
I made sure to mention that I'm happy to provide additional info for them to screen me beyond p411. I just got no responses. In fact, most did not even bother to look at my profile. So i assumed that I'm doing something wrong.
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So, just because they say that on a site, does not mean they are going to see you with no information in addition to P411 saying you are verified. I would not mind doing that for guys in another state, but not locally. I want to KNOW exactly who I am seeing before doing so.
I don't think you'll be viewed as a time waster just for pre-screening, but some women may not bother with that request if it is a month or more out. I've never been one to mind advance bookings, but I certainly can't keep up with who wants one six months from now. It's simply not a priority to me without a deposit letting me know it is even going to happen. I generally like to plan in the 30 day window unless it's a serious trip that requires hotel and airfare.
You will learn that providers are not all business majors and have no clue of what common courtesy entails. Even if I know a guy is not for me, I always respond with an explanation. Some appreciate it, some go nuts calling me a whore. Neither really matters to me lol.
felt no need to let you know. They may consider you a time-waster and did nothing, since you apparently didn't request a date with any of them. I think this is more likely. Many providers have enough to do screening guys that have requested a date than to take time to screen someone that 'might' make a date with her, but has yet to do it. I would suggest you decide on a provider you would like to see, and ask for a date with her. Then you know she will be doing something to screen you.
When you contact someone, be sure to let her know you are verified on P411, but being a newbie do not have any provider references yet.
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Thanks. That all makes sense.
I've been clear that I'm p411 verified, and am willing to provide any additional info they might want.
...That I only got a response when sending an appointment request. Even with a appointment request, I did not always get a response. You will soon learn which care about their clients and which don't.
correct..i never use the Pre-approval method..it makes me feel like a time waster..which i am not..i always choose a lady who suits me and send in a Appointment request form..they view your profile and get back to you almost immediately..P411 is the best..
This is my experience and 2 cents. I am now on a few different websites, p411 is one, an they all have emails I need to check. Some are forwarded to my many email address and some only let me know that I need to log in and check my email. One actually does neither. That being said, between all the emails and voicemails and text messages, I feel overwhelmed at times and miss a few.
My suggestion is to email through p411 first for the possible discount and verification process then call her personally and say i sent you an email and want to make an appt. If there is no number then email her main email address you can find on her website or ter. This way you are less likely to get missed.
Everyone that I have sent a pre-aproval request with has gotten back to me. Maybe its the way I ask, I am pretty specific when it comes to that. I give them a couple days and times that would work for me, and let them know that I would like a 90 minute date or 2 hour date. I don't ramble on, I just tell them when, where and what times. So maybe your saying to much, or not enough I don't know. Some may take an hour to get back to you where as some may take a week to get back to you. Just keep trying.........
Then they either didn't get the pre-approval request, or they decided you weren't worth the effort. Either way, you can do some things to help:
-PM the lady from your P411 account directly - we can immediately click on a client's profile from the message, making it much easier for us to check you out
-explain why you think the lady is a good fit - mention something from her profile that you like, and say why you think you both will get along. This shows you're serious.
-Follow up a few days later - sometimes my pre-approval emails end up in spam, or they get grouped together with other pre-approval emails in my gmail conversation view. A quick "hey, I send you a message, just following up to make sure you got it" is definitely helpful. I try to get back to everyone within 48 hours, but a follow up email will make me reply much quicker. But don't be obnoxious - 72 hours or so later, and emphasis on the "quick."