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Or she could be like some of us who don't want more reviews. It isn't that we have retired or aren't working we just would rather not have all the reviews. In the hobbyists minds it seems that just because we don't have 100 reviews that there is something wrong, this couldn't be further from the truth. Alot of us have regular clientel so we see very few new gentlemen. We prefer staying UTR because as said, there are plenty of fake reviews out there so what can you base your choice on.

Doing your research is the only way to know you are seeing a lady who doesn't pull scams. Sometimes you need to take the advice on here with a grain of salt because what works for others isn't necessarily how everyone chooses their provider.

Posted By: swimtrekr
Your second choice does not seem too good to me.  You are better off sticking with the well-reviewed provider.  You might PM her last reviewer and ask if he knows why she has not received any more reviews since his.  There are several possibilities for it.  She might have retired and forgot to ask for her reviews to be taken down is just one.

Swim

Newbie here:  I finally got my VIP membership, I've been reading reviews and doing some homework, but now I'm not sure what to do. I know that it is suggested for newbies to choose a provider for the first time that has several reviews that are "good" reviews.  

Well, I have narrowed down my search to 2 providers.  One has a lot of reviews and is "well"-reviewed.  She also has a good site.....however, the last review of her was back in November.  Does this matter or rather, should I read into this at all?  Could she be gone? LE issues? Other???

The other provider only has a couple of reviews, but one of the reviewers has written a few reviews while the other guy had several reviews.  The other thing about this provider is that her site is VERY basic with VERY little info, she looks great in the photos but she doesn't show much skin (I heard this might be a sign of LE), she also lists a half hour fee only......I think as her pricing is unclear.  It almost seems too shady, yet she was reviewed by what I assume are reliable VIP members.  

Is anyone willing to provide some insight, help me make a decision, point me in the right direction, etc.?  I have been wanting to do this for so long and want this first experience to be as fun and relaxing as possible.  Thanks all.

I don't trust a review when the gentleman only has that one review - I disregard it . It could have been written by the provider herself or a friend . It happens , trust me .
I don't read into the " quality " of the providers website . They cost money and GOOD web designers also cost some bucks .
Not showing skin being connected to LE - I don't understand that logic myself .
Old reviews are not a red flag persay . She has a life and maybe needed the time off ., you never know . Myself , I would be leary of less than 5 reviews - you and her are just to " new " to guarantee a great experience .
OK , newbie advice that I have learned ...........I don't think you can go wrong if you select a lady that is in the top 10 of her city . Touring ladies included of course . They got there for a reason !
You can try and PM the reviewer but not all of them are on TER all the time . Trust me , sometimes they will give a good review for thier own reasons or have left out some details that you may have not known or liked .
Stay off Back Page please !
Have a plan A , B , and C . Scheduling can be difficult .
Be a gentleman and it will go a long way in BOTH of you having a good time .
Don't send countless e mails to her . Send your intial e mail with ALL your info for her to screen you . A lot of guys are not serious and just waste the ladies time . Use spell check - it shows your intelligence and she looks at that aspect the same way you are looking at her lackluster website - it goes both ways 'ya know .
Pick a top 10 lady and you will have a great first experience - TRUST ME ON THAT ONE !!!

Your second choice does not seem too good to me.  You are better off sticking with the well-reviewed provider.  You might PM her last reviewer and ask if he knows why she has not received any more reviews since his.  There are several possibilities for it.  She might have retired and forgot to ask for her reviews to be taken down is just one.

Swim

Or she could be like some of us who don't want more reviews. It isn't that we have retired or aren't working we just would rather not have all the reviews. In the hobbyists minds it seems that just because we don't have 100 reviews that there is something wrong, this couldn't be further from the truth. Alot of us have regular clientel so we see very few new gentlemen. We prefer staying UTR because as said, there are plenty of fake reviews out there so what can you base your choice on.

Doing your research is the only way to know you are seeing a lady who doesn't pull scams. Sometimes you need to take the advice on here with a grain of salt because what works for others isn't necessarily how everyone chooses their provider.

Posted By: swimtrekr
Your second choice does not seem too good to me.  You are better off sticking with the well-reviewed provider.  You might PM her last reviewer and ask if he knows why she has not received any more reviews since his.  There are several possibilities for it.  She might have retired and forgot to ask for her reviews to be taken down is just one.

Swim

half hour rates (only) are not desireable.  Not saying never on the latter, but circle back when you & she have more experience.  This is NOT Match dot com.  You are free to see others.

I would have a couple more well reviewed that you might be interested in...  you have options.
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