Not offbase. However, tact is appropos - you don't want to start off on the wrong foot as it were..

Lotsa ways to approach that.

I always leave the donation in the bath along with a few lit candles and a few nice feminine supplies.

I invite her to take her time - no rush

and I invite her to invite me to share the moment if she'd like '

I have *never* had a visitor not want to use the facilities, and all have seemed a little concerned about the time issue. Some have mentioned that the time starts when they are ready, which is thoughtful.

Bottome line - thoughtfulness and good humor go a long way....

It's fun foreplay as well as good hygiene.

Just make sure you understand that some providers consider it part of their time, so if you dont mind them being in there for 10 min or so and its an hour session, than just let them know.

Here is a example of a review where the guy asked the girl to shower.