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Claudius42310 13 Reviews 1109 reads
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i like the music track idea. it works very well for me.

i observed without prompting that the music track terminated a little shy of the allotted time. i dislike abrupt transitions out the door and it was very thoughtful of her to present this auditory cue that our encounter was coming to a close.

LillianFix3612 reads

So, it's come to my attention that many men either have a hard time telling time, or are trying to get more for their money...

Totally understandable, I do the same thing when I go to the 30 minute walk-in massage people...and yet they always finish (with that annoying back pounding) on the dot.  

So...how do I gently and politely let a gentleman know his hour is up?  
Maybe I can be firmer about letting them know on the phone that they're buying my time...but even when I do, they try to linger.

This is outcall, so it should be easy--all I have to do is leave...but it's very uncomfortable for me to have to tell them that I've overstayed their welcome.
It seems very un-girlfriend experience to be rigid about time, but if I'm not, I feel a little taken-advantage-of, which is bad for my escort-self-esteem.

I could say I have to go because I have another appointment...and if it were true I would...but the truth is, I just want to go because the time they've paid me for is over (unless the guy is really hot, then I don't mind as much--but I still feel kind of bad about not getting paid the correct amount).  
And I want to be known as a low-volume kind of girl, so lying about another appointment is counter-productive.

Ladies:  How do you handle the lingerers, so that you both feel good afterwards...is being firm about time something you just get comfortable with after a while?

Fellas:  How does the lady let you know your time is up in a way that doesn't make you all pouty?  I know many gentlemen will finish when their time is up, without having to be told...but how should I handle you, if you're not one of these (and are willing to admit it on TER ;)?  
I'm guessing I shouldn't pound on your back...

This is really important to me, because it has to do with building respect on the part of my clientele, as well as self-respect...

Thank you so much for your responses...

p.s. I don't mind a few extra minutes,  but 30-40 is B.S. on both our parts...

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MarkusKetterman1631 reads

of GFE

But the bottom line is that a *provider needs to be an outstanding time manager* and highly develop these skills.

You need to bring the session (including the last pop) to an end before time is up. Maneuver the gent to where you need him to be and conclude the session.

If he has finished one cup, don't start on another late in the session unless you are willing to go a bit overtime to finish it.

If you are conversing, bring the topic to how much you *have enjoyed his company today* and it would be nice to meet again - an ego sparing way to bring the attention to the fact that the time is nearing an end.

Do not grant total responsibility to the gent to be aware of and manage the time. To do so goes against the grain of the GFE experience.

I have many many times been told by a GFE provider that I don't need to wear my watch or worry about the time. And yet I'm usually out the door in good order..... this is a skill that a top notch GFE provider should develop. Developing and excercising this skill will also make you feel stronger and more competent, as well as in control of the session.

Cheers

GTM

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minnow111306 reads

The first provider I visited just came right out and told me. "I have to kick you out now" Although she did say it in a joking and playfull manner. She also asked if I wanted a shower before I left. This was a signal to me that my time was coming to an end. I looked at the clock and had only 5 minutes left. I didn't feel like she was being mean. Its business.

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shudaknownbetter916 reads

This has been discussed before...  there were many good ideas.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=46638&boardID=33&page=

As I stated one Fav lady has discrete clocks  besides the one on her bedside table.  Some ladies know by the music track.

Guys are lost in the moment...  at least I am...    Just the other day, I was basking in the afterglow with a Fav lady...  I struggled to get a look at a clock & OMG we were well past time!  We got dressed & kissed lightly as I left.  But then this delightful lady allows generous time between clients, she was headed to the shower after I left.
skb

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Claudius423101110 reads

i like the music track idea. it works very well for me.

i observed without prompting that the music track terminated a little shy of the allotted time. i dislike abrupt transitions out the door and it was very thoughtful of her to present this auditory cue that our encounter was coming to a close.

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famkejensen1519 reads

I hear this all the time from ladies on these boards. It must be the type of men you see because in years this has not happened. All my guys seem to be able to judge the hour thing or I must, without consciously knowing, give cues as to when to start to get things together to leave. On the rare occasion that I have had someone who loves to chat, I simply mention that I have somewhere to be and that I really enjoyed his company and that he is welcome to return should the desire arise. They get the hint, get dressed and quietly leave. No fuss, no muss.

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PocketFisherman979 reads

sets an alarm on her phone.  It saves either of us worrying about the time and she can focus completely on me.  It isn't like she grabs her clothes and dashes out of the room as soon as it goes off, we disentangle and start getting ourselves together, sometimes a couples shower, sometimes not.  The point is that we both know that a certain amount of time was agreed on and that time is up.  If she sticks around for a while after, well, bonus.

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IMALLIN1192 reads

I'll bet anything we're talking about the same woman. She is the only provider I've ever met that uses that method. The first time I saw her, the alarm went off right in the middle of one of her great bj's. She stopped for a few seconds to turn it off, then went right back to it until she drained me. You're a lot nicer guy than me if you can tell her to call it quits before finishing the task at hand, lol.

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keystonekid1356 reads

has a good sense of time or maybe the music ends.  In any case, she gets up from the bed and puts on her robe.  I know that is my signal to get dressed (shower first if necessary) and get going.

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shudaknownbetter964 reads

with a new lady.  It must have been time, when she extracted herself from our afterglow cuddle & put on a silk robe...  I never gave it a second's thought.
skb

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im2cute82893 reads

You should wear a watch... one guy kept setting the clock back on me... thats not nice : (

hehe there are the subtle ways afore mentioned, id like to add, before starting say " you wont believe my client this morning he would NOT let me go I was soooooo good..." that sounds lame stick to the subtle hints

TRY
"Your going to be my favorite client when will we have another session?
, i want to have my pussy waxed and ripe for the licking..."

follow up with " you enjoyed yourself I hope... it seemed you did!?"

THEN

" im glad you did, think about our shower when you go back to work "

I don't know im not a bullshit artist but im learning lol more like a pitiful comedian.

Just don't say " well my look at the time" " how time flies"

or the "are you done yet are you don't yet"
Are you close are you close" are you about too....

none of that that will make you take well over the hour

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