A provider reference is an 'ok' from another provider that you're not LE, otherwise safe, etc. The only way to get one is to have already seen a provider. If you haven't seen a provider yet, then obviously you can't have any references.
Search the boards for verification. It's a very common topic. Providers can verify you are who you say you are themselves, and there are of course the three big verification services (RS2K, P411, Date-Check) If you want to see a provider and she won't verify you herself, either search for one that will or sign up for a service she accepts and go through that process.
A provider reference is an 'ok' from another provider that you're not LE, otherwise safe, etc. The only way to get one is to have already seen a provider. If you haven't seen a provider yet, then obviously you can't have any references.
Search the boards for verification. It's a very common topic. Providers can verify you are who you say you are themselves, and there are of course the three big verification services (RS2K, P411, Date-Check) If you want to see a provider and she won't verify you herself, either search for one that will or sign up for a service she accepts and go through that process.
Sign up for a verification service and find a provider who will see a newbie who is a member of that service. Good services to consider; Datecheck, P411 or RS2K.
Ask if you can use her as a reference after the appointment, and providing the appointment went well for BOTH of you. If you had a bad experience and write a so-so review, she may not be inclined to act as your reference. If you arrived late, asked for services not on the menu, overstayed your welcome or did not arrive with the correct donation, she will also not reference you.
Also, some providers will not give a reference if they have only seen you once or if its been a year since they last saw you. So, after you have seen other providers, ask if they will provide a reference. Its also unfair to keep using the same lady as a reference unless you see her routinely.
Just my recommendations! I am sure other ladies and gents will jump in with their thoughts.
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