Hello All ,I have become a basic member and i going to go full swing soon..I joined a Information service provider..but now haveing hard time starting..All most want a 1 time valid ok...Which i perfectly understand their need for validation.I dont want to start out with something i dont want to be with..lol..any suggestions ?...I am in the USA..texas area..

I posted on this on another board very recently, will cut and paste my suggestions:

Some may disagree, but some good traveling independent providers will screen based only on work verification and personal info. Once you've seen them then you can use them - as long as the local doesn't require local refs only - I did run into that in Columbus OH once.

Locals don't like the traveling competition, but then they won't see guys w/o references - so where else can u get them? You could also email a couple of locals and tell them you are a newbie and willing to do whatever they need to feel secure u r okay - but u don't have any refs yet. It worked for me a couple times before I had any refs. I understand why most need them - with all the no-shows and creeps and LE out there, but some may take pity on a newbie if you are up-front and ask nicely!  Don't be surprised if they don't respond though as how do they know you aren't LE trying to bait them?

GL2U

Yes i did register there at P411..and things worked out..made friends..thanx for the replys..

After several years on the sideline with medical issues, I'm about ready to resume the hobby.  However, I have no provider references and I'm permanently disabled, so I have no work references.  I've never used an agency, but would that be my best chance to get started again?  Or, would it be easier to schedule a massage session or some sort of session that is not fs?  Any suggestions would be appreciated.  Thanks.

Have you taken a look a Sugartouch.com?  This is a site set up by a top-class provider that tries to link the hook up the hobby community to the disabled community.  Hopefully you will find a gal listed there in your area.

Even if you can't find a local gal on that site, I epect that you will someone willing to help!!!

Best wishes to you,

jazz32

Thanks.  It doesn't appear that website currently has what I'm looking for.  I'll check it occasionally.  I can usually tell by their website or reviews whether a provider would be accomdating.  I would also indicate what limitation I have when I contact them.  I'm just waiting for my eyesight to come back a bit better so I can start driving again.  It's getting better but it's not quite there.

Thanks again for your suggestion.