Struggling with figuring out how far ahead to contact a lady that I've never seen. I am the type that could schedule something 3 months ahead but I know the majority of the ladies here don't work that way. I tend to start one to 2 weeks ahead but get such huge disparities of results. I've had one respond back in 30 minutes with the green light because she knew one of my previous and others take 2 weeks! And then, once you go through it all, it's "How about NOW?!"
I read all the time about contacting same day or even a few hours before and be off to the races. How does that happen?? I am Whitelisted and my reviews are from well-reviewed ladies and it is hit or miss whether that helps.
Just had a great last-minute opportunity strike out and it was frustrating. Thoughts?

If you are seeing a local gal, then a week ahead is great for both parties, two would be stretching it however unless you anticipate an overnight or some kind of session that she needs to prepare her schedule for.

Now if you are traveling to a city for some other reason, and there is a provider in that city whom you want to see, I would contact her as soon as you know your dates and let her know that you would want to see her.  It would also be a good idea to touch base with her as the time approaches just to make sure she hasn't made some plans to go touring herself.

If a traveling gal advertises her availiablity in your town I would contact her as soon as she has done so.

Hope this helps.

Providers:  Have I got it about right?

The furthest ahead I ever try to schedule is a week and that's with my ATF.  With other gals it's a two or three days out and when I'm traveling it's a day out or even the same day.

One of the reasons escorts escort is because of the flexibility involved. Unless it's a touring lady it will often be very difficult to nail down her schedule months or even weeks in advance.

There are always options. You can call a reputable local agency if none of your indie options are working out for you.

Why not just contact the lady and ask her?
There are a lot of variables and all providers operate differently.
I will not see a new client until he has been verified or I know that he is respectable, safe and legit. As for someone I have already met then I still prefer to schedule out 2 to 3 days but I also understand that may not always be possible and I am willing to accomodate on short notice (if I can) so I let them know to go ahead and call me but there are no guarantees that I will be available.

that's about right.As soon as you know your schedule you should contact the lady you're interested in to make sure she's available at that time.I have had gentleman contact me a month before and also the day before requested appointment time.As long as I can screen/reach referencs I have no problem with 24hr notice.Any ladies that you're interested in I would visit their website to see how much notice is required before trying to contact them.

I'm traveling in a few weeks and I just contacted a provider in the destination city today for an appointment 2 1/2 weeks away.  I told her my situation (traveling to the city), intended time, length of session, and plans.  BUT I also told her that my schedule is still subject to change.

So, after back and forth, she is penciled into my sked and I'm penciled into hers.  Will plans change? maybe...but if mine changed she'd be the first to know and vice versa.  If nothing changes then i get to see a provider I've been looking forward to for a few months.

Incidentally, we will make the appointment "official" next week and we'll both write it in pen at that point.

That's the way to do it and I have done it myself. Esp going out of town and wanting spend time with a particular person. I want to make sur eshe is available and can scheduel with me..

Depending on how things are going at a certain time of day I could be available if someone wanted to come right away but can't always predict how the day or night will go so I greatly prefer advance appts even if it's a few hours before.

If you want to set it up with me 2 weeks in advance thats fine with me, as long as you actually keep the appt. I find many guys will set it up well in advance and then caNCEL as the date approaches, and I hate that!