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How to follow up on the first email if a provider hasn't replied?sad_smile
ch0204 2220 reads
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Hi everyone,

I'm relatively a newbie to the hobby and would like to ask for your advice.

So I finally sent a booking request email to a provider, but I haven't heard back from her. I'm pretty sure I did all the necessary things such as attaching my screening information for verification and keeping the email polite and kind. I also checked my spam but didn't see her email (she mentioned that happened to her clients in one of her ads).

Maybe I'm just feeling anxious and eager, but how would you suggest following up if I want to see her?

Please let me know. Thank you in advance!

impposter123 reads

Yours is a frequently asked Q. Here are some examples:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie---faq-33/contacting-providers-170386
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie---faq-33/how-long-to-wait-for-appointment-response-167605
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie---faq-33/how-long-to-wait-is-partially-determined-by-how-far----164834
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie---faq-33/how-long-to-wait-after-first-contact-160134
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie---faq-33/p411-appointment-request-how-long-to-wait-132130
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/newbie---faq-33/how-many-inquiries-how-long-to-wait-109962
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The answers depend on info not in your OP (original post). Did you check her ads or posts? Did you check her sites for "last logged in" or related info? Is she ignoring you / not replying due to something she doesn't like about your request or just that she's busy? ... Maybe she's on vacation? Delays are sometimes due to emergencies (hospital visit; veterinarian visit; etc.). Some websites / ads will say, "I always reply within 24 hrs." or "I am very busy but try to reply within 7 days." and such.
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Until you give us more info to give you a better answer, be patient for a while longer.

Posted By: ch0204

Hi everyone,  
   
 I'm relatively a newbie to the hobby and would like to ask for your advice.  
   
 So I finally sent a booking request email to a provider, but I haven't heard back from her. I'm pretty sure I did all the necessary things such as attaching my screening information for verification and keeping the email polite and kind. I also checked my spam but didn't see her email (she mentioned that happened to her clients in one of her ads).  
   
 Maybe I'm just feeling anxious and eager, but how would you suggest following up if I want to see her?  
   
 Please let me know. Thank you in advance!

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ch0204102 reads

Hello and thank you for sharing the previous threads on the same topic!

She's active on both TER and P411. I emailed her on Monday at 2 pm, and I introduced myself and attached my selfie with a full body shot in the email.

I don't have a P411 account, but she mentioned other ways to be screened. I'm pretty sure I share enough screening information with her to let her know that I'm real: I attached my license (only showing my name, date of birth, and issued date, the rest of the info is blacked out) and my work website.

She's currently touring, and I did notice that it says "Accepts contact from: Basic & Basic Plus Members Only" on her P411. Would that be the reason she's not responding? I know it's not helpful to assume what the other person's thinking about, but just wondering...

Will likely send a follow-up email later today and move on, based on member's suggestions in previous threads.

Any thoughts and advice from anyone would be appreciated. Thanks again for your help :)

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impposter116 reads

Touring / not touring often affects response time ... in EITHER direction. Some who are on tour are very busy with their out of town scheduling, visiting with their out of town friends or family when not BCD, shopping, making sure that their next leg of the trip is in good shape, distracted by business meetings (if she's traveling as part of her real world job AND her TER job)  ... basically, a lot of stuff that will slow their response to a non-immediate situation. Others who tour might be the exact opposite, finding themselves bored to death, sitting in their room, waiting for an email to pop up and can reply to an appt request more quickly than when they are at home and distracted by family, shopping, home upkeep, laundry, cooking, ... you get the idea.  
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"Basic or Basic Plus ONLY" could be the issue. Does she have any NON-P411 ads that do not mention that requirement? I don't know how P411 works these days. How much does Basic cost? It used to be that you could get approved either by submitting personal info OR by getting approvals ("yes, we met") from P411 registered hostesses. Someone who knows P411 needs to clear that up.

Posted By: ch0204
Re: How long to wait for response is an FAQ
Hello and thank you for sharing the previous threads on the same topic!  
   
 She's active on both TER and P411. I emailed her on Monday at 2 pm, and I introduced myself and attached my selfie with a full body shot in the email.  
   
 I don't have a P411 account, but she mentioned other ways to be screened. I'm pretty sure I share enough screening information with her to let her know that I'm real: I attached my license (only showing my name, date of birth, and issued date, the rest of the info is blacked out) and my work website.  
   
 She's currently touring, and I did notice that it says "Accepts contact from: Basic & Basic Plus Members Only" on her P411. Would that be the reason she's not responding? I know it's not helpful to assume what the other person's thinking about, but just wondering...  
   
 Will likely send a follow-up email later today and move on, based on member's suggestions in previous threads.  
   
 Any thoughts and advice from anyone would be appreciated. Thanks again for your help :)

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ch0204111 reads

Hey thanks for telling me your insight!

Luckily she replied after my follow-up email and we scheduled an appointment. She does have a Tryst profile, but will definitely ask her more about being a P411 Basic member.

Thanks again!

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