Newbie - FAQ

Re: How long to wait....
HotDogg 1 Reviews 3336 reads
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1 / 10

Hi,

How long to give a lady to respond when contact is made via email/webform?  I've put out a couple inquiries, followed general etiquette, and am still waiting several days later...

Wondering what time is fair before going to plan B.

Thx,

HD

Sexy Carolina See my TER Reviews 1689 reads
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2 / 10

If plan B is to contact the next lady on your list...do that. I believe that you should contact a few on your list. See if and how they respond. Just because she looks hot on paper does not mean she put s out..like returns emails, follows thru...is easy to contact.
Here is what is important. Setting up the date should be painless. If you can't even get a response after a few days..move on down the road.

But remember this. Sometimes we miss an email or two. When I do..I email you back and mention that...so I would give a lady who does that a second chance. There ARE times when we are not stuck in our email. So ....try plan B and good luck!

Love
Sexy Carolina

mattradd 40 Reviews 1448 reads
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3 / 10

Allot depends on if she requires contact by email only. If she's open to phone contact, I wouldn't wait more than a day for email return, before calling.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1261 reads
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4 / 10

I would not give it more than a day or two on each attempt. Definitely have a plan B.  Providers lead a double life. Sometimes a lady just is not working when you are looking to see her and may not be checking her "work" emails or website.

shudaknownbetter 2461 reads
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5 / 10

That really depends on your time frame.  For a first meeting, I'd expect a reply 2-3 days depending on the day of the week.  As has been said, I'd not scratch someone permenantly for a long reply interval but I'd not sit around waiting for too long & miss opportunities.
skb

tmtlr27 1318 reads
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6 / 10

When I first got in the hobby I found a provider who looked so hot she could start a fire just by standing near some paper..lol

I emailed her and waited 2 days, then emailed a 2nd time (conveinced she didn't get the 1st..lol) and waited 2 days. Then I broke down and called her number and left a voice mail, waited 2 days and then called one more time and left another voice mail. Didn't hear anything??!!

So I waisted over a week when if I had moved on I could've easily seen someone else. Three (3 yep!!!) months later she calls me up and wants to know when we can get together. She had been on tour for 2 months, had surgery and had been out another month.

Moral of story....after a few days MOVE ON!!

RocketMan36 75 Reviews 1055 reads
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7 / 10

Even when traveling....

With a confirmed apoorintment, have the phone number of a second lady just in case....

My very first appointment, the lady had babysitter issues, and despite many phone calls saying that she would be there soon, she was a no show.

Had I had the phone number of my second choice, that evening may had ended positively....

Never get hung up on one lady.  Even if the reasons are valid for missing connecting, it will be an evening lost....

RocketMan

Blissful_Belle See my TER Reviews 1342 reads
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8 / 10

Great answer!! True for me too ;)

HotDogg 1 Reviews 1084 reads
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9 / 10

Hi,

Great responses and guidance.

I'm on to plan B and working up plan C.  Plan D involves getting drunk and calling it a night.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 2288 reads
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10 / 10

Shit happens, don't fixate on any escort. Even my atf, who I adore, leaves me waiting. Develop a list of escorts you would like to see, than cycle thru the list. Good luck

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