I know, I know, I have asked this question before, and I am sorry to be asking again. The truth is I would like a legit answer.

How long does it take to be approved for the proiver board?

Not sure how long it actually takes if all requirements are fully met.  See requirements in link
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Took me about a week after having 3 reviews And emailing a request to TER for access.

How can I figure out if any of my reviews are from regular TER hobbyiest?  maybe thats where my problem is, its been almost 2 weeks since I requested entrance to the providers board. I wish they would write me back or something.

If you will click on each reviewer that has reviewed you it will show every one of that particular reviewer's reviews.

Maybe they have the same judgement issues(or lack thereof) with you that I have? The moderator did see fit to remove that particular post.  I doubt it, but it is possible. I would suggest you PM the Board Administrator to find out.