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Re: How do you give a tip?
mrfisher 112 Reviews 1238 reads
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1 / 13

Have the bills in your palm as you give her a departing hug and kiss.  As you draw away, move your hand down her arm to her hand, and transfer the bills to her palm.

Watch the smile.

iworms 33 Reviews 2404 reads
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2 / 13

I've been hobbying for 2 months now, but haven't figured out how to tip at the end. Do you just hand her the cash and tell her it's tip for great performance? Do you put the cash somewhere and not say anything? Or do you put the cash in an envelope and give it to her?

inicky46 61 Reviews 1148 reads
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3 / 13

and say, "thanks, babe, that was great."  At this point in the session, no envelope is needed.  The envelope is a fig leaf anyway, and not really LE protection or GFE device.

OSP 26 Reviews 873 reads
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4 / 13

Tip only at you discretion and if the mood moves you.

I have left gift cards, books, clothing, tuition(lol)etc....handed it to some, left it on nightstands...and even placed it under her pillow while......you know. IMO only the first ten minutes is SUSPECT!

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 1086 reads
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5 / 13

I prefer to tip at the beginning of the appointment.  I don't tip with $, I bring a gift selected from the lady's web site gift page.  Nothing expensive, usually under $20.  It's a great way to start the date. Providers are surprised I took the time to read the site, especially the  gift page.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 872 reads
posted
6 / 13

Just put in on the dresser if it's an in call. If it's an out call and she's leaving it's perfectly acceptable to either hand it to her or put it next to the envelope if it is still in plain view.  In short, it's not really a big deal.

Should you tip? Well, that's up to you.  I don't tip my ATF anymore though I do bring her small gifts or favorite candy or other sweet treat just about all the time.  I also buy her dinner and book twice a month or so.

I do still tip the lower priced agency girls that I see on the road sometimes depending on the rate.  A lot of the one-and-done girls only get $100 or so per appointment so if they go above and beyond I will tip them extra.  Honestly that's about the only time.  I view tipping escorts the same way I view tipping strippers.  They are making hundreds of dollars an hour.  There is just no reason to tip above and beyond that.

mildar 1 Reviews 1186 reads
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7 / 13

What amount justifies a fair tip for a good session? 20% 30% based on the hour.....if you've already paid hundreds of dollars, what is considered fair?

rightonppl 29 Reviews 1061 reads
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8 / 13

The session fee alone is assumed by both parties to be fair compensation* for, at a minimum, a good session. Therefore, any tip is more than fair. Obviously, it shouldn't be an insulting amount, like pocket change or a couple of singles.

*Except in brothels or possibly some agencies where tipping is expected.

mildar 1 Reviews 889 reads
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9 / 13

Nice since i signed up i have been concerned about this and this will give me less to worry about, i felt like the donation should be enough a didnt want to get stuck having to leave another hundred bills or something.....so thanks for setting the record straight!!!

Dr Who revived 815 reads
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10 / 13

like they need to do so.  And if you are one that feels that is necessary, simply add that to the already donated amount at the end of your session.

As for those who DO NOT feel the need to tip a gal that is already receiving a very substantial hourly rate, please continue to act accordingly.

Just a question for the OP...has your employer yet tipped you for doing your job?  And I suspect that you are not earning $ 300+ per hour.  Just give that some consideration before you feel "compelled" to tip any gal in the biz.  And I feel the same if the gal is working with an agency, as that was HER choice to do so..and realizes that she will NOT keep the entire donation.  However, she has the option of going indy and keeping the entire donation for herself.

But as I stated earlier, there are guys that feel like tipping is part of the experience, and since this is all about YOU, if you feel the same, just go with it.  There are NO right or wrongs on tipping!

SomeHumorName 1214 reads
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11 / 13
TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 824 reads
posted
12 / 13

..... just give it to her lol.  BUT some guys like to give it with the donation before the session begins but usually they've seen her at least once before also.  Or just ask simply her beforehand "if I want to tip, how do I do so?".... some ladies are extremely against you handing them anything before during or after a session.


I've had one instance where it was my first time seeing this particular client and as he was leaving slipped out this envelope and placed it on the desk in my hotel room.

Posted By: iworms
I've been hobbying for 2 months now, but haven't figured out how to tip at the end. Do you just hand her the cash and tell her it's tip for great performance? Do you put the cash somewhere and not say anything? Or do you put the cash in an envelope and give it to her?

OldTraveler 40 Reviews 1301 reads
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13 / 13

They are never required, and should in my opinion always mean you thought the lady and/or the evening was exceptionally nice in some way.  In that case the means of giving the tip is not really important.  Express your honest gratitude and appriciation, and do not worry about how it is conveyed.

Another option which can say the same thing more personally is a small gift personalized for her.  Check her web site, her posts, her photos, even her name, and you can often get an idea what she likes.  A gift wrapped pair of earings in her favorite color don't present near the same challenge of how to hand them over.

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