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averagjane 1357 reads
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Hello everyone.  I'm not new to the industry, but new to the internet industry......and I must say that I throughly enjoy reading what you gentlemen have to say.

I am not from an agency, I'm actually an independent, and though I do understand what some of you have said about reality, I have to disagree with HAVING to have everything timely.
First meetings are always uncomfortable for me, and I'm sure for you guys as well, so I naturally allow time for the butterflies, fears, so forth to disappear.  I may be neive, or just not business like, but I don't plan companions after companions.  I believe you deserve the same consideration we "escorts" claim we want.  Respect.  If I know that I have an appointment at 5, I don't schedule anything between 4 and at least 2 hours past the agreed ending.  I mean really, getting ready takes time, and refreshing myself after takes time too.  So, in my opinion, if she's looking at her watch to get you out of there, then, yes.  She is a clock watcher.  Anyway, just wanted to get my 2 cents in there.
Love the actual feedback, its refreshing~!
Lizz

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Not exactly a newbie, but I thought this discussion might be useful to the "new" members among us...

I've read many reviews that describe women as "clock watchers" -- as soon as you've had your cup, you're out. And I've seen reviews that describe women who stay an hour and a half for a one hour appointment -- definitely "not clock watchers." However, what do you call the "clock-conscious" types?

As an escort, I always honor my full appointment time, but, if I'm booked 8pm to 10pm, ideally, I arrive at 7:59pm, around 9:55 I start getting dressed, saying "good bye," and am usually out the door a minute or two past 10pm.

Would you describe this as "clock watching"? Is this standard? What's standard? What's preferred? And do you think this varies from type to type? (i.e. girls in the $350+ range have different behaviors than girls in the $150-250 range)

Thanks!


If the gentleman feels that he is being pushed to finish by a certain time and it doesn't happen.. What would you do?

Most gentlemen will not take advantage of your time and know that if they paid for the hour thats what he should expect..

How much time I spend with each gentlemen depends on our conversation..I am very friendly and long winded but if a gentleman puts me through my paces and no conversation in between I am out the door in the hour.

Kisses Haley

trying to get me to cum as fast as possible; literally looking at the clock or sneaking glances at MY watch while I'm doing my best (major ego hit); having the cell phone ring the five minute warning; asking "are you close honey, because we're running out of time?"; saying "OK babe, time to go" fifteen minutes before the time is up (because the clock was set ahead); and the kicker - "I'm really busy today, so let's get started Hon."

I have experienced all of the above at some time or another, and I would define each Provider in each case as a "clock watcher."

And many of us who have been doing this for any period of time have had the kinds of experiences he describes. To me, in a general sense, "clock-watcher" = "anti-gfe".

I've gotten the bums rush from ladies that pack their schedules - even got pushed out the door (completely) by a lady was totally nude and wearing some of my splooge because she had a gent literally at the other door.....  

However

I have never been rushed or hurried by a low volume lady who sees no more than 2 or 3 clients a day and usually less....

That's not to say that I am in the habit of or expect to overstay the compensated time.  But it does mean that the overall experience is more relaxed.....

Very low volume providers rarely will schedule more than 1 - 3 appointments a week. Thus, while saying "time is money" does apply to them as well, they are more likely to treat each Gentleman they meet as true GFEs in non-rushing manner.  

XoXo

Lina


shudaknownbetter1466 reads

I understand that the date does need to move along...  with my Fav ladies, they may glimpse a clock but I'm never aware of it.  They will NEVER ask "Are you close?" or "Did you C*mm?"  And if you do finish before the hour will stay with you on the bed or where ever...
skb

I think DC's post best exemplifies all of the negative qualities of a "clock watcher".  That being said let's not confuse the derogatory terminology that the industry has coined with reality.

ALL escorts watch the clock.  They have to. Like it or not a date has to move along to it's conclusion and the customer has to leave happy and on time. On time means when the time is up, not at "time" plus ten minutes to shower and get dressed.

If you are seeing an agency girl she is well aware that the phone is going to ring and the booker is going to tell her that your time is up.  If you are caught in the room after your time is up the lady may well be fined by the agency.  This is reality.

Indie girls have time constraints as well, the next appointment, real world commitments or just the fact that your hour is up!  It's great to enjoy the relaxed atmosphere of being with a woman who appears to be in no hurry but you need to realize that what you are really dealing with is a dedicated provider who is really good at time management, not clock watching!

Clock watching to me = rushing....

I NEVER rush my clients, I glance from time to time at the time, but never mention it, or try to rush my clients. Running over the time a little doesn't bother me, complete satisfaction is what matters, as long as my clients respect the fact that they asked for a specific time....and don't take advantage of it....

Just my .02 cents :)

averagjane1358 reads

Hello everyone.  I'm not new to the industry, but new to the internet industry......and I must say that I throughly enjoy reading what you gentlemen have to say.

I am not from an agency, I'm actually an independent, and though I do understand what some of you have said about reality, I have to disagree with HAVING to have everything timely.
First meetings are always uncomfortable for me, and I'm sure for you guys as well, so I naturally allow time for the butterflies, fears, so forth to disappear.  I may be neive, or just not business like, but I don't plan companions after companions.  I believe you deserve the same consideration we "escorts" claim we want.  Respect.  If I know that I have an appointment at 5, I don't schedule anything between 4 and at least 2 hours past the agreed ending.  I mean really, getting ready takes time, and refreshing myself after takes time too.  So, in my opinion, if she's looking at her watch to get you out of there, then, yes.  She is a clock watcher.  Anyway, just wanted to get my 2 cents in there.
Love the actual feedback, its refreshing~!
Lizz

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TERs_Welcome_Wagon1085 reads

We love having new gals post here, BUT posting a link to your profile on another review site isn't cool,

jazz32

averagjane1435 reads

Jazz, I apologize, as I did not know I was doing something wrong.  This was my first time here, and when you finish, it asks for link url.... anyone can say they are an escort, and well, I guess I didn't read the posting instruction manual that should go along with this. I don't really know if I should be embarrassed, or actually hurt at the quick response.  If I could figure out how one would list here, then by all means.

If you read the reviews, you will know which ladies are 1 cup and which are MSOG.  Also, most GFE ladies will give you a 10-15 minute grace period for an unrushed exit.  There are times when I'm out the door on the minute when the 60, 90, or whatever time limit is reached.  One time I had a 2 hr. date before I caught a plane to the other coast.  Difficult to explain missing a flight because you were enjoying the company of a hot woman.  

Other times, if we are "clicking" and I have no immediate place to be, I may chill with the lady for a little while, assuming she wants my company.

tmtlr271351 reads

Not sure if this is the definition of clock watcher but this is my two experiences, good bad so you make the call.

Case #1...happened this past Wed. Well reviewed lady with mostly 8, 9s but had just started back from a 3 month "vacation". Had a 1 hour appointment. We made contact and she worked part time but said we could meet at lunch (my best time to meet). She was to pick me up behind a business and drive me to her incall location. Although she text me to let me know she was running a "little" late, I waited for 30 min. past our set up time before she picked me up. The 5 min. drive was filled with her telling me how rushed her day had been and week. We pulled into her garage and she literally took my hand and ran me to her bedroom. We stripped down and she laid in the bed and talked about 1 min. until she said, Well if we are going to do it, lets get started. She was the worst lay I've ever had and kept telling me, hon you got to hurry now. After about 10 min. she says sweetie can't you cum? So after a grand total of 15 min. in the sack with her I pulled out, got dressed and told her lets go. She said, what's wrong, like she didn't know? I told her it just was too rushed and she said, please dont' give me a bad review, its just been one of those weeks. Will, I ever contact her again....NOOOOOO

Case #2....Lovely lady I've seen only once a week ago. After case #1 I felt empty so contacted case #2 by email. Our first time was not rushed and she even asked me to stay as long as I could as she has no SO or boyfriend and said she would like to spend some time with me. On her reply email she said she would be so happy to see me again and asked if I could stay longer than the hour I had asked for. Wanted to know could we shower together and hang out like last time. Ego that was bruised from Case #1 is instantly restored because of Case #2.

So who do you think I'm going to book over and over??? One more note, the first case was really my first ever encounter as a really bad experience since taking up the hobby. I did my homework but guess I just caught her on a bad week?? Just my .03 cents (.02 wasn't enough..lol)

Brings you into the room or her place, a quick kiss, quick small talk, undressed, fuck, maybe a kiss again all done in a matter of 60mins
From soup to nuts (literally!)  and POOOOOF your gone!  CLOCK WATCHER AT IT'S FINEST!
and as your walking back to your car your scratching your head wondering if that was just a dream or did it really happen!
Hell, i've lost track of time because we're having so much damn fun! the glory of low volume i guess.
Jay

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