i know that is a really silly question to ask, but honestly i need some help on how to say no, in a polite way. I often have guys call, who i can tell that just by the way they speak over the phone, i would not be interested in seeing. i often feel awkward trying to say that i am not interested so i usually just end up saying that i am not available. and they usually call back a day or two later, and if i say that i am still not available, they ask when i will be available and then i just end up hanging up. then they call back a couple of times, i don't answer and it just seems like a big mess.

I also have some guys that i have seen, that i am just not interested in seeing again for whatever reason. And i do tell them that i just don't think we are a good fit for each other. And then they call back from different numbers with different names days later.

I just really need to now how to get my point across that I'm not interested without being rude or harsh.

Thanks for the help everyone.

Say that you are not seeing new clients until further notice.

If they leave their number, then you will contact them when your policy changes.  Then program the number into your phone to not ring you.  You can probably get their numbers anyways unless they block them.  

You can do the same kind of thing with email.  Just have their addys go direct to the spam file.

You always have the old Marsha Brady stand by

"Something Suddenly came up"

"Based on your request, I don't think we would be a very good fit.  I suggest you look for someone else that would be more to your desire.  I just don't think we would be compatible.  I really want you to have a good session, but someone else might be a better match for you."

Try that, and edit to fit your situation.

Good luck Natalie,
Swim

you have a pm.

If the guy is someone you have not met, say "I'm not taking any new clients at this time."

If the guy is someone you have seen, then say "I don't think we were very compatible, I am no longer interested in seeing you.  Can I recommend a friend of mine who I think you will enjoy?"