In addition to the excellent advice above, I would also suggest signing up with a verification site. It makes the whole date set up process much easier.
Hi! I'm new to this whole environment and am pretty nervous about taking it to the next level... (i.e. actually contacting somebody) any advice on how I should proceed?
1. Start with email and be polite. Describe yourself and what you are looking for. 2. If a phone number is given, ask if it is okay for you to call her and continue a conversation (so you can get a better sense of how she might be in person). 3. BE NICE BE NICE BE NICE! Makes you look safe and the provider will be more comfortable around you during the appointment. DO NOT BE RUDE ever i.e. a jerk unless you ask if your session can include dirty talk. 4. Keep in mind NO ONE IS PERFECT. She is just a person like you. Women are way more self conscious about themselves than you may realize.
Provider suggestions.....
Start with a well reviewed (lots of reviews) lady aged 30+ with her own website. These providers have seen all types and will be more able to ease your mind, be more caring, nurturing, understanding and have more experience at making guys feel comfortable during an appointment. Stay away from the 25 and under crowd with just a few reviews to begin with. Trust me on this.
That is exactly what I did. I am new at this as well and did my homework and contacted a lady that is 32 year old. I told here that I am new at this and sure what to do. I have to admit, I was scared a bit for some reason. lol
FIRST, read the "newbie manual" the link is at the top of this board.
Do NOT mention any sex act as that'll freak the lady & think that you're L.E.
Learn how to be discrete. Larn what a hobby phone is & if you need one. Have a discrete private e-mail no one else can access. learn what the 2 call system is & how it works.
At that point you probably should get VIP. How to discretely pay for it. You may think it's a waste of money but it costs far less than even one spoiled date or wasted opportunity. With VIP you can read the complete reviews & select a provider who offers the services you desire. For a Newbie, choose a provider with at least 6-8 good reviews by hobbiests who have done multiple reviews. This shows that the hobbiest are real & the providers actually do what they say.
As you gain experience you might want to branch out & risk TOFTT... but that is more of a gamble & I suggest sticking with sure things at first. Best Wishes, skb
In addition to the excellent advice above, I would also suggest signing up with a verification site. It makes the whole date set up process much easier.
Lurk on this board, the GD board and your local regional board to the left. Learn to use the searc feature on the boards. As others suggeste get a VIP membership. Good luck.
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