With a provider besides a date, if you have other fetishes like going to afternoon tea or walking around a park is that possible? And would it be appropriate to introduce them to your acquaintances? How often do escorts usually have clients like this?

yes is all good
I don't like meeting my clients friends unless we have been playin for a while and have established a very good connection. Questions come up like, where did you meet  and so on. I d hae 3 reg Gentlemen I see who I have been to parties and events with many times, their friends think we date. Its a bit tricky but under the right conditions its all good.

yes walk in the park, a movie a picnic, what ever. That's not really a fetish but a date.  

in any situation, discretion is key otherwise it's all good.

that is not a fetish.

There are two fetishes that involve the term tea:

One is urine play, the other, called teabaging (and not to be confused with the anti-tax movement) is where a man lowers his scotum into a gal's mouth.

I often go out on social functions with a provider if doing a long date, usually six hours or more.

I would not want to mix the personal side of my life however with the hobby.  A lot of problems can arise that way.

What you are talking about is going to vary form lady to lady. Many GFE gals will spend as much time doing non sexual things with you as you like as long as the clock is running.  How you would introduce her to your friends is something you and the lady in question should discuss.

I just had one yesterday like this.  Is this you?  We had high tea, then took a brisk walk in the park. We saw one of his acquaintances but he didn't come out much.  He probably doesn't like the cold weather, not to mention people and kids staring at him all day.

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I never heard of teabagging.  (the hobby def) which just goes to show you can never learn everything in this hobby.

By paying an escort to impersonate my first wife.

First wife was really uninterested in showing up for any of my work functions and her continued absence had actually become a source of problems.

Since I figured she would NEVER show her face anyway -- I said, what the hay -- let's just get an escort to impersonate her.

And that's what I did. So from 1988 to 1992 for all work functions requiring family, I had the same escort show up.

At the time, I was blissfully ignorant of the fact that getting laid was included in the price which caused a bit of friction initially as that wasn't my cup of tea.

Bless her heart, that girl must have thought I was the stupidest guy on the planet. I explained to her that we *couldn't* have sex because that would be cheating ... PLUS ... since I was paying her ... it might be considered a crime of prostitution!

In retrospect, I'm sure she and some friends laughed their asses off over that.

But, either way, for about 4 years that one lady was -- for all public purposes -- my "wife."

I actually do this quite often (90% of my dates), but overall, I suppose it's rare. I do have a 'regular' job as a bartender so the 'How'd you meet?' story is simple enough.

are you serious? then what happened after four years? and how can you afford something like that? did you cut a deal because that can be pretty expensive

no no me, so he was the shy type and didn't introduce you or anything? so what was the typical day usually like for these type of clients

After four years, I switched jobs. It actually didn't cost very much once the lady realized what the deal was; and I only needed to produce "my wife" about 4-5 times a year.

were you ever attracted to the escort at one point?  and what problems does it cause when you go alone to the events without a wife? like no one to dance with?

But just because a girl is attractive doesn't mean you have to have sex with her. That really wasn't my cup of tea. My wife at the time would lay me -- so that wasn't an issue.

The place I worked was one of those places where advancement and status were accorded to married men. The wives were expected to get together and mingle and all that jazz while the men talked shop. (Yes, those sorts of places existed then.) And, yeah, there were dinners and stuff with dancing. The bottom line is having my "wife" show up was worth thousands of dollars a year -- so the escort was a good investment.

Her job was to come with me, chat with the other wives, dance when needed and just overall be charming.

She was an amazing flirter. She could do it just right so that it would appear that she was trying to be subtle but still be noticed doing it by the other wives. Nobody ever doubted.

And yeah -- she was attractive and she dressed in a classy way that was still hot. She pulled it off perfectly. But, again, even though I'll admit to the fact I got pretty turned on by her, especially the first time before she fully understood the deal, I was happy to sate that appetite at home.

i want to do that too with providers, but how much discount did she provide for this type of service only?

than can involve anything from walking around the park, shopping, going to lunch or dinner.  Some may book an entire 24 hour period and that could include going to the theatre or other activies.

Look to see if the provider offers an extended rate for clients.  Remember, you are paying for their time and they will expect to be compensated.

I have attended social functions with clients on many occasions and they are discussed and agreed to in advance.

I think the best way to find out what they would charge you would be to contact the ones you find the most suitable for you, and simply ask them.

I have a client I travel with very frequently.  Of course he and I have a special rate because of the frequency of his appointments.   I have been to multiple countries with him, met his colleagues and been to business functions with him.  

We are known as "friends" and we always have fun talking about the different men who flirt with me on our trips.  

With other clients Ive gone shopping, lunches, dinners, walks on the beach,  and yes, even to tea.  

We ladies are just like any other.  Though this may be our business, many of us are more than willing to give you a special rate when the majority of our time is spent out and about.