OK, you're a newbie. You have an outcall and the lady has arrived. You have hugged or kissed and now you're sitting at a table having a drink.

What's the best thing to talk about in those first moments? I would think that the lady is evaluating her safety. And then there's the issue of what you want. So what's the best way to do all of that?

Just go with the with the flow Joe. Every lady is different, some will not want to talk at all, just get right to buisness, others will sit down and make small talk for a few minutes. I would suggest not asking any highly personal questions, just smile, try to be at ease, compliment her, relax and hold on for the ride of your life.

Jim

If you go with a well-reviewed provider -- which I highly recommend -- things will progress naturally. The ladies are generally good at small talk and are used to it so they'll likely take the lead and make you feel comfortable. Avoid personal questions.

As already stated, some ladies will jump right in with the action; they'll start kissing, etc. almost the moment you meet. They chat afterwards. Others will want to chat first to get to know you a little better.

Try not to think about it too much.  Relax and enjoy. And again, see a well-reviewed lady. It will help put your mind at ease.

A lot of providers will decline a drink if offered.

I think I have the advantage of being a pretty good kisser (and massager of available flesh while involved in embrace). So that's usually the way I start. We can stand up and start necking and getting hot. Kiss her neck, fondle her ear with your tongue. Grab her ass. See how she responds. Seems to work for me. At some point, you'll both decide it's time to shed some clothes and get serious.

As was said previously, don't assume the lady will want a drink. But, a good first verbal exchange can start with the question, "Is there anything I can do to make you feel more comfortable?" She'll take it from there.

in front of her.  Otherwise, there will be suspicion about the drink being altered.