1) Many gals have reviewers here withouth having first registered.  Although it seems to be happening less the past few months, the past two years or so some newbie guys had their first reviews rejected, apparently in an effort to reduce the potential of bogus ads.

The guys need to communicate with TER and ask why the review was rejected, though there may have been some reason given at the time it was not approved.

WARNING: never let a client use your computer to log into his TER account; similarly, if you do outcalls, do not use his computer to log into your TER account.

2) Your photo url needs to end with "jpg"; the entire backpage ad will not work, as you discovered.  To get the proper link:

a) right click on your backpage image,
b) click on "properties",
c) copy the url shown in the popup window (which should end in "jpg") and paste it into the line in the TER window (after deleting "http://").

P.S. The only "women only" board is the "providers only" discussion board.  Any post on other TER boards will likely receive more responses from guys than gals.