: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : What do *providers* do if the attraction isn't there?

Anthony4 2 Reviews 1588 reads

posted 9 years ago

1 / 19

What do *providers* do if the attraction isn't there?

So someone recently posted asking what one should do if you arrive at the provider and find for whatever reason you're not attracted to them (In some cases it's bait-n-switch, in other cases it's just that real life is not the same as the photo and the fantasy)

So I'm curious... what do *providers* do if the customer shows up and you just don't find him attractive? I know, the money is what bridges the gap, but do you ever find yourself with someone you find SOOO unattractive that you just want to send him away

darmody 22 Reviews 625 reads

posted 9 years ago

2 / 19

Don't Look

I've been with ones who kept their eyes closed the whole time.

Posted By: Anthony4

So someone recently posted asking what one should do if you arrive at the provider and find for whatever reason you're not attracted to them (In some cases it's bait-n-switch, in other cases it's just that real life is not the same as the photo and the fantasy)

So I'm curious... what do *providers* do if the customer shows up and you just don't find him attractive? I know, the money is what bridges the gap, but do you ever find yourself with someone you find SOOO unattractive that you just want to send him away?

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 534 reads

posted 9 years ago

3 / 19

Your fantasy, is their business

Do you like every aspect of your job? Many keep the lights low, and burn candles. And they will tell you good hygiene is more important than looks.

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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 412 reads

posted 9 years ago

4 / 19

Re: Your fantasy, is their business

Posted By: hiddenhills

Do you like every aspect of your job? Many keep the lights low, and burn candles. And they will tell you good hygiene is more important than looks.

-- Modified on 10/29/2016 8:58:07 PM

Good advice Your fantasy is escorts business.

CandaceLace143 531 reads

posted 9 years ago

5 / 19

Re: Don't Look

Im the type that has to find something attractive about you. Its not just the roses for me. If its not there n theres no attraction I politely decline the date. Even offering a friend in replacement. Im not a robot I don't just shut off and do everyone and everything.

FreedaNipple 13 Reviews 382 reads

posted 9 years ago

6 / 19

They do it doggie style, so they don't have to look at you -e-

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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 569 reads

posted 9 years ago

7 / 19

Re: When I was considering becoming a Provider...

Posted By: GingerTaylor1234

THAT was one of my first questions to my "mentor"...I was concerned I would not be able to fake an attraction that simply was NOT there. Her answer to me was that it was far more kind to just be honest that we were not a fit and give the gent his $ back and perhaps recommend a friend. This is much more honest and kind than taking someone's $ and forcing myself through the session. There's a lid for every pot and I have only had to do that twice in my entire career. And both times the gent was a great match for another friend.

.Legit business owners has to do things they don't like.But they do it.It's not called faking it.How many business owners give business to another business owners? How many hookers or legit business owners give money back paying customers.

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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 438 reads

posted 9 years ago

8 / 19

Re: Fancy, you are entitled to your opinion...for me, I

Posted By: GingerTaylor1234

have to do what works well for me...I have finite resources (me) and choose to do this in a way that pleases me, not to fit in. Have a nice day.

Do whatever make you happy being business owner.Never heard of business owner faking it and turning away money and giving business to business owners...Amen girl everyone title to their opinion on boards.Have a good day to sweetie!

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 416 reads

posted 9 years ago

9 / 19

Re: Thanks you, too. If I refer someone to

Posted By: GingerTaylor1234

a gf and she does the same for me, then we are all helping each other AND the gentlemen are more happy, too.

Win-win-win.

You and Gf business partners in adult business.Prostitutes going to making paying clients happy..It has to be win win.Can't lose at all.I didn't mean to upset with my opinions on public board.

Newbie_McNewbface 562 reads

posted 9 years ago

10 / 19

Re: When I was considering becoming a Provider...

Posted By: Fancy8888

Legit business owners has to do things they don't like.But they do it.It's not called faking it.How many business owners give business to another business owners? How many hookers or legit business owners give money back paying customers.

-- Modified on 10/30/2016 8:18:46 AM

This isn't common, but it's far less rare than you might think. Especially in service businesses.

My dad owned a VW repair shop for 30 years and depending on customer needs (and not just if they were unpleasant!) he would send them to one of the other 2-3 VW shops in town. He might do it if the customer needed repairs done on a timeframe he couldn't accommodate, or if the customer wanted to get used parts that he was no longer will to hassle or just didn't have in stock. (You'd be *amazed* at how often people went for a used motor instead of a rebuild.)

Retail stores will usually just serve anyone, but when the business will involve an ongoing relationship, referring customer's away is definitely a thing.

Just call 5-10 photographers, tell them you want photos taken for your escorting business. I'd be shocked if at least 1 was unwilling to take your money. Heck, don't tell them it's for escorting work, just that you want some of the more risque shots we see on the photos board and at least a few won't be comfortable with your business.

Just because it's a business doesn't mean you can't say no.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 365 reads

posted 9 years ago

11 / 19

Re: When I was considering becoming a Provider...

Posted By: Newbie_McNewbface

Posted By: Fancy8888

Legit business owners has to do things they don't like.But they do it.It's not called faking it.How many business owners give business to another business owners? How many hookers or legit business owners give money back paying customers.

-- Modified on 10/30/2016 8:18:46 AM

This isn't common, but it's far less rare than you might think. Especially in service businesses.

My dad owned a VW repair shop for 30 years and depending on customer needs (and not just if they were unpleasant!) he would send them to one of the other 2-3 VW shops in town. He might do it if the customer needed repairs done on a timeframe he couldn't accommodate, or if the customer wanted to get used parts that he was no longer will to hassle or just didn't have in stock. (You'd be *amazed* at how often people went for a used motor instead of a rebuild.)

Retail stores will usually just serve anyone, but when the business will involve an ongoing relationship, referring customer's away is definitely a thing.

Just call 5-10 photographers, tell them you want photos taken for your escorting business. I'd be shocked if at least 1 was unwilling to take your money. Heck, don't tell them it's for escorting work, just that you want some of the more risque shots we see on the photos board and at least a few won't be comfortable with your business.

Just because it's a business doesn't mean you can't say no.

Excatly just because it's a business doesn't mean you can't say no.Funny how escorts jump on each other bandwagon on opinions on a board.All escorts in business make money.None of escorts not doing it for free.A lot escorts make this business their's only income

-- Modified on 10/30/2016 10:17:22 AM

keystonekid 114 Reviews 364 reads

posted 9 years ago

12 / 19

Glad to see an honest reply from a provider. eom

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IslaFlores See my TER Reviews 568 reads

posted 9 years ago

13 / 19

Looks don't matter.....

Worst case scenario the connection is not there....if that's the case then i just give it my all. But how someone physically looks won't ever turn me off immidetly. One of my best lovers are average to below average by society standards. And some with model looks are just okay lovers.....all about the mind sex 😋😋