Hello Gentlemen. I am interested in after the deed is done...that is, after meeting with a provider for the first time, are you looking for follow up? If so, what kind? Thanks! ~Giamarie

Most of us do not expect nor want an email or a phone call from you after a session.

Presumably you are a newbee.  You will find that one of the hazards of the biz for providers is wasting time in non-productive email and telephone tag initiated by guys, to say nothing of irresponsible ones who fail to show up for an "appointment".  (My provider friends tell me 50% no-show rate is common.)

If by "follow up" you meant something else, then you need to be more specific.

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There are a few people who I have corresponded with for awhile before actually meeting. Then sometimes a quick note seems appropriate.

But when in doubt, leave it out. In most times I'll only respond if the gentleman follows up with me first. I don't want to intrude on him at all after our time together.

IMHO, thats one of the cool aspects of seeing an escort, have fun then go your own way, so I dont want to intrude on that

I may be old school but I think a quick email (if you know he has a safe one) thank you is very touching. It makes (at least for me) the experience more real and that it really happened with a great gal. I personally always email the provider a quick thank you and tell her how great she was and looked.

It's your choice. Some providers have emailing lists.

I usually send the provider an email telling her how much I enjoyed the session and thanked her for seeing me. May sound corny, but haven't gotten a negative response yet.

I usually send an email letting her know that I really did have a wonderful time.  If she responds, super.  If not, well, I understand she might be pretty busy.

Swim

Hi Gia Marie - A couple of my favorite ladies email or call a "thank you for seeing me today" message. And they don't mind the occasional exchange of email after / between visits.  I usually email a thank you to a lady after I've seen her, but I was really impressed when a lady contacted *me* with a thank you.  Cheers - Gregory

a nice time.

This has always left me with very positive feelings about the lady, even if the session wasn't mind-blowing.

I like a personal connection with the ladies I see and nothing solidifies that more than an email or call when she has nothing to gain.

I usually have email contact with a lady after a session, to get Date-Check, or P411 verification, or to let her know that her review has posted.  Having received acknowledgement from her after the session makes those communications much smoother...and a return visit, more likely.

JMTC

I usually e-mail a thank you, had a great time to my Fav ladies.  Some respond, others not.  
skb

No phone call because that may arrive at an inopportune moment or leave unfortunate tracks in a bill.

E-mail is fine.  I usually send a thank you e-mail within a day of a visit.  Sometimes she will beat me to the e-mail.  I think it is a perfectly fine thing to do and is a way to communicate that you would be willing to see the gentleman another time.

Because I'm single, I really appreciate and love when a provider sends me a follow-up e-mail, text, or phone call.  However, I recognize that I'm in a different situation than most.

On the whole, I'd say (to be safe) not to do a follow-up except through e-mail.  Even then, I could see a lot of guys objecting to that.

Me though?  Call/email/text away! :P

but personally, I love getting emails and PM's from beautiful women. I guess it's a great ego stroker. I always like to send a little thank you note after meeting with a lady. There have been some times when I got the thank you note from the lady before I had the chance to send one, and to me, that's fantasic. There are also those special ladies who keep in touch even beyond the first email.

So all you ladies who haven't written in a while, I'm waiting.

the insight. As a newbie, it is helpful to gain information from those with more experience. I really enjoy this board and am glad there is something like this for newbies...and now, I know where I stand on follow up after meeting a gentleman. Thanks! ~Giamarie

after our date.  If I had a great time, I will continue dialogue with the hope of meeting her again.  I repeat with about 30-40% of the ladies I see.  There are some I would really like to repeat with but my schedule doesn't allow it.

I have been sending an email the next day thanking the lady for the session.

I normally get a thank you back, and I appreciate that.

I always send a thank you for taking the time to come see me, it's a respect thing but most of all it's a thank you for picking me to spend time with. In this very hard economy and considering how slow we all are, to have a gentlemen pick you to spend his hard earned money is a very special thing, and it makes me feel special especially amoung all the very beautiful providers on here!  
Thats the way i do things though.
Jay