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breaking the ice
mjinoc 2201 reads
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I've seen some very hot reviews but seem to be having trouble breaking the ice to see them.  They all want two referrals so how the heck do you get referrals if they won't see you without previous meetings? LOL  I've visited a couple of locations via backpage but they aren't TER reviewed.

I've put a link to a ladies point of view on screening.  You can just scroll down the board to see the entire thread. In addition, scroll back a few pages and see this topic discussed ad nauseum. Finally the board has a search feature which you should become familiar with. This will enable you to research questions you may have and not weight for someone to post an answer.  Finally if you need to read the "self help center" in red type back on the main page of the newbie board. Good luck



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Posted By: mjinoc
I've seen some very hot reviews but seem to be having trouble breaking the ice to see them.  They all want two referrals so how the heck do you get referrals if they won't see you without previous meetings? LOL  I've visited a couple of locations via backpage but they aren't TER reviewed.
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shudaknownbetter691 reads

on their ad or web site.  Explain you need alturnate screening methods & give them what they need...  or if they want information you're not comfortable with, move on to someone who is.  
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jjl4151103 reads

I'm new and in need of references. I am willing to provide employment info.

seen this topic discussed many times.  There are verification services (P411, R2K, & Date-Check) and also there are some agencies that require minimal information.  VIP is necessary to read the juicy details of the reviews.  The $20 is well worth it just to prevent a bad experience.

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