help yourself by reading the Newbie Manual at the top of this board and also a few pages here so you can get a feel for how TER works.  Many questions repeat every few days.  There is also a search tool for posts if you have a topic just plug it in and see what comes up.   Good luck.

I saw your (Joyful1's) post in the strip club thread above.

Take it slow. Take it slow. A lot (most?) of the regular, major strip clubs in NYC do NOT condone that sort of behavior. You'll be hated by the other girls who only want to dance, fired on the spot by management and possibly worse.