I have my first in call appointment tomorrow.  How do I handle envelope?  Put on nightstand? desk?

I'm worried about a lot of stuff but for some reason this one is bothering me now.  Want to be as relaxed as possible to have a good time.

Am going to meet with provider that has tons of positive reviews so I feel good about that choice.

Brief answer- say absolutely nothing, place the unsealed, unlabelled envelope on the nearest flat surface, and let her take over from there.

long answer- at the top of the FAQ for Newbies window- click on TER Instruction manual and read the WHOLE THING-  great info.

Good luck, you are off to a great start if you have already done your homework and seeing one with great reviews!  I was pretty nervous my first five experiences, finally relaxing a little now.  Have Fun!

-- Modified on 10/31/2007 3:26:15 PM

Her website may have instructions regarding the donation. But otherwise, I would recommend to just go ahead and place it on the closest table or dresser without comment.

...as long as she is not an A-cup!

Actually, follow GB's advice. Just be discreet, she'll be looking for it so you don't need to call attention to it when you put down the envelope.

From time to time a lady will ask that the envelope be placed in the rest room after you wash your hands.  She then discretely checks the contents.

As others pointed out, check her site for any special instructions. If none are specified, just place the (plain, unsealed) envelope with the exact donation amount on the table or dresser, discreetly, right when you arrive (after greeting her, of course). It is also common courtesy to excuse yourself to wash up- she may suggest it, saying "Do you need to use the restroom?" or "I have fresh soap and towels in there" but if not you can bring it up by asking where the restroom is located or just excuse yourself for a moment. This is both a hygeine thing- many incall ladies prefer that the gent showers upon arriving, or if he says he has just showered, at least do the hand wash/mouthwash thing. In addition, this gives her a chance to discreetly check the donation for new clients, without having to count it out or handle cash in front of you, which most of us would consider quite tacky. Hope this helps!~ By the way, it sounds like you made a good choice- Enjoy your first experience!

XoXo
Marea

-- Modified on 11/1/2007 3:47:13 AM

Thanks for all the help. Everything went great today.

Was very satisfied.  The review from me that is posted for San Fran is from my first experience having someone come to my hotel room.

Today was first time for me to go to incall location.

Review will follow tomorrow or Monday.

Welcome back Marea.  We have missed your insightful posts.  Hope you are well.

First time is nervous no matter how you prepare but the next one and all others are like xmas day if you do your research on TER first.