Newbie - FAQ

Re: First time, how long should I pay for?
DeadlySinner 2420 reads
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1 / 10

This would actually be my first escort and the first time I have sex. I'm leaning towards an hour, because you can't do multiples and I don't know how long I can last. But I'm also not very good at small talk, and I'm worried about awkwardness.

BTW, how legit are the tna boards? The escort I want (who is pregnant but hot,) has a bunch of reviews, and about 2000 posts, but only one review here by someone who has written about 20 reviews. I know this is probably the best place for research, but should I be too worried?

Goldenlight 20 Reviews 1111 reads
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2 / 10

don't know much about TNA...  I would book at least an hour.

johngaltnh 6 Reviews 1799 reads
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3 / 10

1. See someone with more than one review here. They don't have to have 20 pages -- but 5 or more from people who have also reviewed other women would be good.

2. For goodness' sake let this woman know you are a virgin. You can't discuss sex before a session per se; but if you are halfway smart you can figure out a way to let her know. You do NOT want a PSE or Dominatrix unleashing on you first thing.

3. Yes, an hour is fine. Don't worry -- she's an expert at making you feel comfortable. But let your first time be only an hour because ... well ... you might not like it and you don't want to feel obliged to hang out for longer.

4. Finally, don't let fantasy-world hobbying take the place of normal social development with normal women.

niceenuf 40 Reviews 691 reads
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4 / 10

John...great advise!

If I can add to the OP...don't be surprised one bit if you can't finish the first time...between nerves about being with a provider, having sex for the first time, and uncertainty over what is going to happen it isn't at all uncommon to go limp during your first provider visit.

Enjoy yourself!!!!

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 2126 reads
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5 / 10


Wow, that's a novelty! Not the way I would begin my sexual experiences this way, but hey we all have choices to make. Just make sure this is really what you want. You are combining the nervousness of getting laid for the first time with nervousness of also seeing a provider for the first time. This WILL BE extremely overwhelming to you and very difficult to get through. I know you want to get laid, but you better be sure that the hobbyist/provider relationship is one you are comfortable pursuing. Once you go down this road, you will be hooked.

But if you must go this route, for a very first time session, I would recommend an hour. First, you have no idea if you will even enjoy the company of the lady you select (it happens). She may not have the attitude you want in a lady or once you see her in person, she may not be as attractive as her ads/website led you to believe. You may be disappointed if you booked more than hour. Also, your self proclaimed inability to make even remote small talk with the lady will lead too many silent moments.
In terms of your "release", while some hobbyists do in fact cum multiple times in the hour, many men only cum once. So don't worry about how long you last, enjoy the journey that leads up to it! (I know, I sound like a frickin hallmark card)

Finally, research is paramount. Choose a provider who is EXTREMELY well reviewed and whom you believe you can connect with at least on some level. Good luck and try to relax and enjoy!  

chuckyarla 7 Reviews 660 reads
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6 / 10

I agree as many have stated that one-hour is appropriate for the first time. Let the provider know it's a first time. You want a well reviewed provider offering GFE and agreed by reviews its GFE. She will make it comfortable for you. Half an hour is fine for just getting the action done, but for first time (IMHO 1st time with any provider) you want to be able to get to know them a little, some foreplay. I would stay away from a pregnant provider for first toime unless, even if that is a fantasy of yours. Also with a pregnant women a picture has to be super recent. What looks hot to you when the picture was taken, may not be hot if its 3 months later.

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 1043 reads
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7 / 10

That's your best bet, given the uncertainties you stated.  Long enough to get your feet wet, and enjoy yourself.

shudaknownbetter 803 reads
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8 / 10
KJ5233 1074 reads
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9 / 10

A pregnant provider on your first time?? I don't know dude that sounds a little freaky. Make sure you go with a provider that has at least 5 reviews of hobbiest that have multiple reviews.

You mentions this is the best place for research so do some. Only one review here is not enough for a newbie; especially a virgin. As others have mentioned make sure she knows your a virgin. I would suggest a mature provider that has the experience to help you through this.

OK one last thing, there is no reason why you can't do multiples. You might find yourself in the position that you cum right away and another release is still available. Go into this with an open mind.

Have fun

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 655 reads
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10 / 10

Given what you've wrote i'd still stay an hr is good to go with. I dunno about TNA (from DC)

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