This is where choosing a provider wisely will pay off, big time.
I would recommend a very seasoned provider, not a young inexperienced one.
I would also recommend that you explain your issues with the provider that you choose. The right provider will understand and should fulfill your needs.
There is no reason to be embarrassed. Good providers see all types of gentlemen and I would venture to say that some may have been in the same boat.
Lastly, don't worry about servicing the provider. Let her do her job, and everything will fall into place.
Good luck.
I would like some advice from both providers and clients. I am in a loving marriage but with a hook. My wife is disabled and has been for ten years. She is unable to perform sexually and I hold no animosity towards her. It's been 10 years since my last sexual experience. I am finally at peace with myself and have decided to obtain the services of a courtesan. Obviously, I am nervous in the sense of being slightly, oh how can I put this, "out of practice". Do I obtain a provider for a quick episode to see how we do or do I want to go for the longer session providers. In the past I was always a very patient lover. I always wanted to give my partner pleasure. However, I feel I'm out of touch and would not want to embarass myself. Help please.
This is where choosing a provider wisely will pay off, big time.
I would recommend a very seasoned provider, not a young inexperienced one.
I would also recommend that you explain your issues with the provider that you choose. The right provider will understand and should fulfill your needs.
There is no reason to be embarrassed. Good providers see all types of gentlemen and I would venture to say that some may have been in the same boat.
Lastly, don't worry about servicing the provider. Let her do her job, and everything will fall into place.
Good luck.
My situation was similar to yours, although I only went 3-1/2 years. Ripped gave you some stellar advice. Look for a well experienced lady, and go for the longer date. Be the patient lover that you've always been, and the lady will take it from there. Of course you're going to be nervous. I still get nervous when I'm about to meet a new friend, and I wouldn't have it any other way. These ladies are amazing, and have a way of putting you at ease in a very short period of time. Embarrassment? Ha! Put embarrassment out of your mind. You're a man, and you're going to embarrass yourself no matter what. That's what we do. Do your homework, choose wisely, and enjoy.
Good luck
If you choose wisely (experienced lady), and tell her the situation everything will go fine. Let her take the lead, she knows what shes doing, you are just along for the ride.
Good luck!
Understand that you'll spend a good amount for this encounter & think about how much research you'd do before you spent that much on an electronic gadget (if you're very wealthy then nevermind!). Figure out what's important to you--tall/short, slender/full figured, blond/brunette/redhead, really young/mature, etc. Figure out what service provisions are important--CBJ/BBBJ, LFK/DFK, CIM/not. Then take advantage of the TER 'Search Reviews' tool to get a list of candidates. Then study their reviews & pics on their web sites & find the one/several that work for you. I'd encourage a more mature/experienced provider for this first time.
DON'T'S: don't start by sifting through EROS/Cityvibe/Backpage & falling in love with pics, maybe of questionable currency/validity (that can be a tie-breaker later). Don't go to any provider that doesn't have a good number of reviews with very good scores on TER. If she's not there or only has 1 or 2 reviews, let somebody else be a pioneer. If her scores are mediocre, expect that level of performance.
And then do what they all said; sked a longer session, share your situation w/the provider, try to relax, & enjoy it--that's what it's all about. Most of us still get pretty nervous when meeting a new lady for the first time; a skilled provider will recognize that & deal with it (another vote for experience).
These ladies are largely a remarkable group that deals with all sorts of guys with 'situations' all the time; they are just about all kind, patient & understanding when you need them to be (and other ways when needs are different). Keep in mind that one of their goals is to have you want to come back again & afain.
And then welcome to the hobby! There are untold delights to be found here, & remember, you're only around until your particular Grim Reaper shows up!
reading the details in the reviews you will be able to see which experienced lady seems the best for you. You can also PM any of the reviewers to obtain more information than what you find in the reviews.
Note: The provider's profile is established by the first reviewer and may not be accurate.
YES, you need VIP. The reviews give a much better picture of the experience. It is less costly than even one spoiled date & I wasted my "donation" a few times before I learned this.
I suggest you select an attractive lady but with experience... so not the youngest, at least not to start out with.
I'd suggest 1-2 hours appointment. My ideal is 1.5 hours but that is me. Be yourself. I enjoy giving & recieving. With an hour or more there is time for both & several.
When you are together you should briefly explain it has been a while.
Best wishes,
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Thank you for the advice. I do have VIP membership and will only call on a reviewed provider. I appreciate all of your comments.
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