As long as you are paying they will be fine with it.
My suggestion is to find a provider in her mid 30s or older (mature and experienced) that likes the dominant role. That sounds like what you will need your first time. Let this provider know before hand it will be your first time (ever) and that you are shy.
During your first session just let her take the lead since you are inexperienced. It will be much less awkward this way and you won't be stressing too much about what to do. Just let her lead you and you will be fine.
I have been thinking about contacting a provider for the first time. The catch is that this would also be my first time ever. I am 36 years old and am a very shy and private person who usually doesn't form personal relationships with other people. For a long time I was fine with never having been in the company of a woman. Lately though, I have been wanting to experience what I have been missing. I was wondering how providers would feel about this. Would they be willing to help out the inexperienced or would it be seen as too much of a hassle? Any advice would be appreciated.
Tough call- a generation or two ago 30+% of males lost their viginity to prostitutes but it is lower today. Personally, my first HJ was from a provider but all other activities were with girlfriends the first time.
I'd ask youtself what you are looking for is it warmth and a relationship or just to feel what it's like to get laid. If the former, my advice would probably be to take the time and find an interested woman outside the hobby. If the second, I'd work up to it a bit - maybe a massage parlor first for the rub and tug and then a well reviewed provider for a several hour session- otherwise it's going to be overwhelming.
But who am I to talk as I'm confused about this hobby too. Plus, this crap is addicting and expensive. If it's your only outlet than you are asking for trouble.
Quote "I'd ask youtself what you are looking for is it warmth and a relationship or just to feel what it's like to get laid. If the former, my advice would probably be to take the time and find an interested woman outside the hobby."
I totally disagree,(sorry). I know that most of the guys I visit with are looking for warmth and relationship. I love that about these guys. If someone is just looking to feel what it is like to get laid, then I sure hope he doesn't contact me. The problem is that is he is only looking for a physical experience then he is going to be disappointed. I've met with several virgins and have had such a lovely time. It is fun to play teacher to a willing student. But, if there wasn't a connection then it just would not have worked. The fact that we are working together to experience something new is relational. And the fact that he has discussed his inexperience has formed a bond. How could I not feel warmth toward someone who is trusting me with the lead? Visiting with a provider can be a warm and safe place to practice not only the physical aspect of sex but also the relational aspect. I remember one in particular that I am so fond of. He visited me for a while so that he would be confident dealing with civie girls. He wanted to not only make sure his skills were there but also know how to communicate better with them.
As long as you are paying they will be fine with it.
My suggestion is to find a provider in her mid 30s or older (mature and experienced) that likes the dominant role. That sounds like what you will need your first time. Let this provider know before hand it will be your first time (ever) and that you are shy.
During your first session just let her take the lead since you are inexperienced. It will be much less awkward this way and you won't be stressing too much about what to do. Just let her lead you and you will be fine.
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