..looking for a specific website to post for women looking for male escorts. It seems there are plenty dedicated to men looking, but not the other way around. Can anyone help me or point me in the right direction. It seems places like Craigslist are hotspots for enforcement, and now require home numbers and credit cards? can anyone help?

generally don't need to pay for guys.

Match.com, Plenty of Fish, Adult Friend Finder, etc are all social dating sites. Look there.

It's a sad state of affairs when a girl needs to cough up Benjamins to get fucked!

Go to any bar in America, and if you can't leave with a decent looking guy for FREE, then you have serious problems.  True.

there is a market for it but its very small and you would have to be drop dead gorgous and have all the social skills and so on.
Woman are not like men. First off we don't need to pay for it, there are plenty of guys who will fuck our brains out NSA...lol
Secondly woman don't tip well, they don't see a need to spend money in this way.
So unless you are drop dead gorgous hung have a fab personality class and so on also in the right social enviornment its not going to be a game the average guy can play.
Think about it...most of your clients will be the gals who Can't just go scoop a guy up in a bar. Ever see Duce Bigalow? lol Funny movie and the charecters are to the extreme but being a male escort will not be like being a hobbyist. You will not know what you are getting into til you get there. No websites to see their pics on no reviews. Its anyones guess whats waiting for you.  Some clients maybe total shockers. Can you get it up fake an orgasm and fuck some butt ugly chick with a stinky pussy? LOL  Could happen.
Its not as pretty as it sounds.
Good luck with that though.

But, then again, I can't believe what female providers do either.

You can screen, screen, screen and whoever is on the other side of the door is still a mystery until it opens. He may be an asshole. He may be angry at the world. He may think that just because he has a few bucks, he OWNS you. I've visited providers who have remarked on my politeness (I'm ridiculous in that realm) and have told me stories about men demeaning them and calling them things I won't repeat.

Then, the guy stinks to high heaven. I'm sure most men are like me -- if I haven't had a shower within the past hour, I stink. Now here's this 250 pound guy with an attitude, and you need to tell him to take a shower or go home.

I just can't believe women manage to do this at all. They must have spines of steel, I'm sorry. Yet, whenever I've seen one they have been -- well, incredible. No hint in sight of how amazingly tough they must be.

But these ladies have it GOOD compared to what you are gonna see.

Nicole is right. Any woman who at least looks good to a guy who is drunk gets all the sex she wants. So what you are left with is the girls even a drunk guy won't screw voluntarily.

I figured I'd help out a hard-up lady once. Not for pay, but because she had aggravated me about it and I was single, so I'm thinking I'll try anything once. So her looks didn't surprise me because I already knew her.

She could barely fit through the doorway to the apartment where I was living. I'm not making that up. And some women that size at least have pretty faces, but she didn't. I was 32 and I had never realized before that an erection could possibly take effort.

But that's nothing. The SMELL. The ungodly SMELL. She couldn't properly wash herself and my tub wasn't big enough. She couldn't reach around to wipe her ass from behind, so she smeared feces across her pussy every time she wiped. Her whole body was disgusting because she just couldn't properly wash it and I didn't have the facilities.

Well, I wanted to at least give her an orgasm but there was no way I was licking shit. So I busted out the saran wrap -- which pissed her off until I rubbed my finger on her pussy and put it under her nose to smell, whereupon she understood. I couldn't kiss her either because it turned out she had a fungal infection of one of her tonsils that made her breath smell like a dead mouse.

Even using the saran wrap, there was a total smell of shit. Do you have any idea how hard it is even for a healthy man to maintain arousal under such conditions? And saran wrap seems to make it harder for the woman to cum. Either that or she was desensitized from using high-powered sex toys or something because it took me forty five minutes. DATY is one of the few areas where I have a smidge of skill. Forty five minutes of hell. After which I had to visit the bathroom and try as hard as I could to think sexy thoughts so I could get erect enough to put on a condom. Maintaining an erection to screw her required a feat of self-hypnosis that would probably have allowed major surgery.

I never did THAT again. But I had agreed. It took me days to stop smelling her. Uggh.

Now, just imagine doing that 3 or 4 times a day.

Would it even be possible to charge enough money for that service?

Forget the women. If you want to be a male escort, lube up your anus and get good at blow jobs.

... I just don't see you doing well unless you go for guys.  Women just won't pay (unless they see another girl that catches her eye and want certain experiences done.) I have never seen an ugly chick not be able to go to a bar and get laid and probably get whatever sexually done to them... or you can always get a sex change (joking)... or here's a thought- you can try a Sugarmomma site, but unless you are perfect in and out of the bedroom... they are the very particular of what they want.

Ok so two little kids were playing in a sand box, a little boy and a little girl.  Well the little boy said to the girl " I have a truck and you don't!!" to which the girl replied " i have a doll and you don't!!"  The boy exclaimed "I have a shovel and you don't"  The girl, shot back "I have a bucket, and you don't"  This went on for a few minutes before the boy, beyond frustrated, pulled down his pants and said "I have one of these, and you don't"  The girl pulled down here pants and said "With one of these, I can get as many of those as I want!!!"

That pretty much sums it up

Holy SHIT!  Literally!  Jesus, you poor guy.  As a thick girl I'd like to say a great big: EWBLEH!  

As a bigger girl I think we get this bad rap like we don't care for ourselves and girls like that facilitate the rumors to truth.  It's a shame.  I’m fastidiously well-groomed and clean, I wouldn’t be able to stand myself much less anyone else tryin’ to hit it if I was as bad as this friend of yours.  I just like to smell nice/look nice as well as I can and that's about as far as the girly-girl aspirations go with me.

Just cause I'm curious... what *did* you wind up thinking about to get off?

Any women who chooses to hire a provider must be so unappealing that even a drunk wouldn’t voluntarily screw her. And, it’s guaranteed she has a stinky pussy,…….. and is a lousy tipper?  

And, you would know this how? Because you had sex once with a woman you found unattractive, and had bad hygiene?

JNK….I am not aware of any sites dedicated to women looking for male companionship. And, from your post, I’m not sure if you’re a man looking to advertise, or a woman looking. However, without even thinking too hard I can think of 2 or 3 personal friends who are attractive, well educated, well employed women, who prefer men and would likely avail themselves of this kind of option---were it available.  I don’t think these women are particularly exceptional in this sense. They’re busy professionals; not interested in BF’s or husbands. Not crazy about the whole online dating scene, or interested in bar hook-ups etc…but definitely interested in sex.

There is no doubt not as big a market as there is for men. But, with the stereotypical assumptions, and stigma immediately associated with even the idea of a woman “paying for it”, it’s no wonder women might be uncomfortable with the concept.

For the record, I pay for it. As I prefer women, I have options. And, this option meets a number of pragmatic needs in my life right now. I may not be a magazine model, but I’m hardly a hideous troll that even a blind drunk wouldn’t touch. I'm reasonaby fit, my hygiene is quite good, and I’m even a fairly generous tipper on occasion, thank you very much.  Jeesh…..

I thought about another lady I had gone out with a couple of times and we used to do rock climbing together. Man was she hot! I still think about her sometimes. (ssh!)

There is definitely a difference between a BBW and someone like that lady. A true BBW can get laid practically anytime -- and even get paid for it! And, like you, is fastidious. I am, btw, absolutely amazed and highly appreciative of the cleanliness of providers.  

But that lady -- ohmygosh. But since I'm not a provider, I felt perfectly free to give her a primer on cleanliness later. (*grin*)

says what you say -- that she'd pay to get laid. Just for the convenience because she's busy. She is pretty big -- about 300 lbs -- and has difficulty getting laid by the KINDS of men she would prefer; but can ultimately get laid without paying.

But I REALLY do not think that well educated and highly attractive women who would pay some hunk to have sex with them grow on trees. They may exist, but they are seriously rare. These would be a minority of clients.

But hey -- I'm game. Let's test your theory.

I'm a well-educated early 40's man with multiple advanced degrees. I have good cleanliness, get checked for diseases every 2-4 times I have sex, am well-muscled with just residual love handles. I have some professional drama training and can give a very realistic experience. I'm a martial arts expert, and conversant in subjects ranging from finance to molecular biology. Outcalls only by appointment to upscale neighborhoods and hotels. 250 dandelions per hour. You must be clean and well groomed, and present payment and photo identification within 5 minutes of my arrival.

Any takers? No? I'm shocked! Just shocked! LOL

Truer words were never spoken, my friend.  Why else would I be doing this?  Heh.  

You know, you sound like a real sweetheart.  She was/is your friend and you tried to do her a proper by getting her laid, even went so far as to go down on her and everything.  Too bad she wasn't as appreciative as, I'm sure, the ladies here would have been.

LOL, total agree there, Nicole.

I heard of one or two in Miami, there's actually one guy who has a site done professionally, I think his name is Bryce or Bryan or something.  

I took a peek at the site and wasn't even remotely impressed.  He had a nice body but the face wasn't anything spectacular, nor the smile (big thing with me).  He looked a little reptilian, actually, kind of vampish and scary.

I dunno, all us girls have it easy.  We can get laid anytime we want.  I have absolutely no trouble just getting a NSA hookup if I want one and have even had some bordering hobbyist offers before I decided to become a provider officially.  Why would I pay for it?  He'd have to be OUTOFTHEPARKOMGDROPDEADgorgeoussexyfinerawr man for me to do that and even then, I've *had* men that fit that category and most of 'em don't know how to fuck anyway.  What's the point?

Just because a woman is attractive does not necessarily dictate that she has any interest in cruising bars; even if she can get all the free ass she wants. Free ass isn’t always all it’s cracked up to be.

Sure, I could cruise bars, or troll inet dating sites. And, maybe every now and again I run across someone I hit it off with---or at least can tolerate long enough to fck.  Hopefully this person isn’t a jackass, or crazy, and is still reasonably sober….and not some violent freak-show once behind closed doors. I’ve done plenty of that, and got tired of that nonsense a long time ago.

OR. As my schedule allows—as it is convenient for me, I can book time with a provider who I know will be courteous and respectful, and well groomed, and charming. And will have done all the work to create a relaxing environment that I just walk into and enjoy. And, when I leave I know I will not, at some point, potentially be having one of those conversations that starts with “I’m not interested in a relationship”….blah, blah…and so on.

With all due respect, I’m sure you’re a stud. But, women are probably gonna want a few more guys to choose from.

I’m not suggesting there is a market similar to that for men. But, without women having the option of dozens of sites dedicated to men advertising to women, with thousands of guys to choose from, with provider websites, and pictures and reviews to read so they can make a good choice about who they might like to see, exactly how would we know how many women might be interested in this?


I may be unique in that I’m a sliver of a minority on TER. But, I’m NOT so unique that I am the only woman out there with a busy professional life, who is ambivalent about cultivating a relationship, or cruising bars or inet dating sites. But still loves sex, chooses to have sex in her life even without an SO and is not only willing, but able to pay a companion because I CHOOSE to; not because I’m can’t get laid for free.

but you still didn't take me up on my offer. You can take one for the team and write my first review!  LOL I'll happily provide a photo of my butt with my face all fuzzy.

I don't think of myself as studly, but having gone to massage school and also being a certified hypnotherapist, I'm sure I could help you overcome any obstacles to relaxation. Sometimes upwardly mobile career women have a hard time really letting go -- and I can help with that. (*grin*) And once you are nice and relaxed, then you can really enjoy yourself and be in the moment. The female orgasm requires a moment of letting go ...

Prostitution is about as close to a free market as you can get. Where there is a demand, a supply WILL appear.

The reason why there aren't dozens of sites advertising to women is because there just isn't demand. I mean, prostitution is a misdemeanor in most areas. Drug running is a major felony. Yet wherever there is a demand for dope -- you find drug runners.

I realize that you can also create demand, to an extent. But I just attempted and you turned me down. (*chuckle*)

However -- as a busy, professional woman -- if you believe there is an untapped market, I think you can build the infrastructure to start your own hetero male escort mall and get in on the ground floor and become a zillionaire.

But I wouldn't count those dividend checks just yet.

And, even if demand existed -- I really think that the proportion that would be women like you would be ... small.

But I will be happy to change my mind on this if you can show me some evidence other than a few females of there being enough female demand to support the kind of infrastructure that male demand has created. And show me that demand isn't mainly constituted by women no man would actually want to have sex with.

If you demonstrate a market, it would definitely be interesting! I could probably start an escort mall myself, round up some guys, and get started.

You can always post an ad on craigslist. Good luck with that. Really. We all need to dream sometimes.

You are not alone... I am busy and while I could spend time finding exactly what I want (and get it) I don't have the time.  I've paid for a few female providers.  It's wonderful.  Why?  Well, I am not wasting time for one.  Two, I get what I want without the BS.  Three, because it's so much better then some chick you met at the bar or ran into.  BTW I treat them well and tip nicely.  Women are beautys that I like as well.

Personally, I have no interest in hiring a male companion.  And, I’m not struggling with overcoming any “obstacles to relaxation”. Thanks though.

However, I do know women who would be interested, specifically, in male companions. I also know women who, when I shared my experience, were pretty keen on the idea and I’ve pointed them in the general direction to find SP’s where they live. Now some of them have shared this idea with other friends, who have taken to the idea, and so on….

Yeah…..that’s a very small number of women who are personal friends, or friends of personal friends. But, the interest amongst these women, in this general demographic was nearly unilateral. And, nary a one did not initially scratch their head in puzzlement that the idea had simply never occurred them before. But when they gave it some thought…they said “hey, now that’s not a bad idea!”

But my point was not really about trying to prove how big this market might be.  And I have absolutely no interest in starting a ‘hetero escort mall’. I’ve just grown really tired of the rude comments along the lines of: “any woman who is not horrifically butt-ugly can get laid for free so WHY IN THE WORLD would she pay a provider?”

Well, for many of the same reasons men do. And this does not automatically imply that a woman who would do this is so old/ugly/unappealing that “no man would want to have sex with her”. Or that she is, somehow, predictably less hygienic than anyone else. I guess if a male provider wasn't able to handle the idea that not every woman walking in his door is going to be model material, this would not be the job for him.

Would a male provider be able to perform with me? Am I attractive enough that he would be able to get stiffie? Who knows? But, being a lesbian who also enjoys playing with boys now and again, that's never been a problem; quite the opposite, in fact.  And, I’m not measurably ‘more’ physically attractive, or better groomed than any of the women I mention above.

But who says every woman interested in a male companion would necessarily want p/v intercourse? A FBST encounter can be just as sexually satisfying, maybe even more so. And, there’s always fingers, and tongues, and toys…..an erect penis is not the end-all-be-all of hetero sex.

I kn ow for a fact woman are the worst tippers.
I was in the food service business for the longest time. Woman tip worst than men. Not all woman but in general. If shes a good tipper chances are shes also in a tipped service business or was raised by someone who was or her kids are. Woman are worst tippers.
Now stinky pussy...we allknow it happens. it may also happen if you are in this biz we all know we have run across our share of guys who smell like old cheese.
Not every woman but its not like being a hobbyist theres nopicture no website and no reviews. Its not all fun all the time and anyone who thinks it is is fooling themselves.

So yes as far as woman tipping honey I am an expert, after 28yrs in the restaurant business I'd say I qualify.

you do not qualify as the general public when stating that woman are poor tippers you are in a cash flow tipping business so obviously I was not refering to you. In general they tip less than men Its not an opinion but a fact.

When you throw out a blanket statement, in response to the OP, that one reason women would not be good clients is because they're lousy tippers, any woman who is a client falls under that cloud.

But, this is not relevant in the first place. The mantra endless repeated by providers is that “tips are appreciated, but ‘never’ expected”. So what does it matter how women tip providers, much less how they tip in restaurants?  

I’m sure there are plenty of men who never tip providers (good, bad, or otherwise), and no one suggests this as a good reason not to see them.