thanks for the advice..i just started the other day and doing my research..i'll just spend some extra $$ for the hotel room just to be safe for my first time..i've read the self-help but it's still different if it comes from the veterans..is there anymore tips for first timers that you recommend?
Regardless of how many dates you have had, it's never a good idea for the first date with any provider to be an outcall to your home. You should 'know' the provider before inviting her into your home. If you are traveling, having her come to your hotel room is somewhat different than to your house.
My personal preference is incall. This way, she is in familiar surroundings and will feel more comfortable. If she is more comfortable, I think you will have a better experience. Just be sure to follow all her rules for screening, etc.
is that LE tends to always do busts of a client on an incall basis because they want the home court advantage. When they go to bust someone in an apartment or a hotel that was rented by others, they never know what they might be up against like an armed hopped up pimp, for example.
So, to avoid LE, do outcalls and have that be to your hotel room, not your home, at least initially. When you get to know a gal later, and you don't have to worry about nosy neighbors or SOs who live with you, the home can be a great place to entertain someone.
Sure, it will cost a few bucks to get a room at a nice hotel, but the peace of mind could well be worth it.
thanks for the advice..i just started the other day and doing my research..i'll just spend some extra $$ for the hotel room just to be safe for my first time..i've read the self-help but it's still different if it comes from the veterans..is there anymore tips for first timers that you recommend?
She has the burden of arranging the location. If she is offering incall, the room is on her. If the room is strictly for your visit, you would be expected to arrange for the room or reimburse her in cash. Renting a room, even if you pay with cash will require a CC. Never leave a girl in possesion of a room rented in your name... a provider could tap the mini bar, damage the room, smoke in non-smoking room, offer incall to others... all linked to you! You must be the last one out or leave together. Much better to reimburse the room fee. I agree, I'd not let an unknown person into my home... much better to go to them. When the door closes between you, there's no tracks.
My personal preference is outcall. I admit to not being comfortable in a strange surrounding, naked with a wad of cash. I also am concerned about providers that have been at a certain incall location for a great length of time being watched by LE.
I know down here in Phoenix, I went to a 24hr breakfast joint off of 51st and McDowell, not knowing it was the new stretch for the streetwalkers, as it had always been Van Buren. I noticed more and more of them, and something else I noticed was Phoenix PD staking 'em out, with some dressed all in black with backpack radios relaying the info to the MC cops down the street. I've read more than one providers story about the guy who called from the parking lot, got the info and never showed up. Could've been PD getting the info to setup.
51st and McDowell is a very sketchy area to begin with. For Phoenix, the old school notion that Van Buren was the hot strectch has long gone by the wayside.....
Outcall is my preference as a provider however there are areas of town (any town) where there is much more (daily) LE activity because of the low rent hotels, drug deals and availability to streetwalkers. So chose your location carefully - you will attract a more upscale provider - and spend a little bit more money to be in a higher end, safer hotel. Much better then getting robbed or worse!
Also, if she turns out not to be the girl in the pictures it's a lot easier to just turn around and walk out, rather than risk her causing a scene in the hallway outside your room. Even worse if she comes to your house because then she knows where you live.
However, I ask the lady for the general area of her incall. If I'm hobbying in my hometown, and it turns out to be in a bad part of town, I'll take a pass.
1) The home court advantage vis a vis our friends in LE. 2) You can control who is in the room: for instance, there is no risk of a roommate, BF, pimp or other character surprising you with your pants down, so to speak. 3) I can get there early, ice down the bubbly, shower just before her arrival, lock up my wallet and civie phone, and not have to worry about being late for the appointment because of car troubles or not being able to find her hotel in a strange area. 4) If its a B & S, just close the door on her. 5) I'm just more relaxed.
Oh, and I would never use my home for a session, too many potential problems could arise from that. But do keep in mind that some ladies will not see you as an outcall for a first date. Hope this helps.
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