Not to drag on the post on general... but something happened and I'm a little perturbed.

Is it okay for me to be angry that a client booked with me then booked with another provider and NCNS’ed me to see her?  And would I be able to blacklist him for this?

No offense to that provider, of course, but our skills/appearances are pretty much comparable.  It’s trading one BBW for another, in other words.

What’s the protocol here?  I cancelled another booking this evening to accommodate this gentleman.  If he'd given me notice of the cancellation that would have been fine but he simply did not show.

Thanks,
Sascha

"No offense to that provider, of course, but our skills/appearances are pretty much comparable.  It’s trading one BBW for another, in other words"

I'll trade you one Mongo Maggie for a Huge Helga?
Who knew they were interchangeable? Wowie.

Uh, I just meant it wasn't like he dropped me to see a radically different girl.  If he'd booked with a spinner or a MILF or something like that I'd understand.  Not everyone is everyone's type, after all.  

By no means am I saying any girl is interchangeable with another and my apologies if it came off that way.

Not healthy either. Sorry to hear this Sascha.

Who stole your man?

LOL it's not important.  The girl herself is a cool chick, I've spoken to her in the past for references.  My thing isn't with her by any means, she didn't even know he'd booked me for the same night.

The guy is a dirtbag for doing what he did. No excuses or tip toeing around it. He should have had the decency to let you know that he was unable to make it for whatever reason. NCNS is not acceptable and especially in order to be with someone else. But hey, look on the bright side. You now have one less idiot to worry about. Too bad it had to be in this manner though.

Absolutely blacklist him. I have absolutely zero tolerance for NCNS. There is no excuse for it, on either side of the envelope. Setting up multiple appointments just to have a back up Plan B though, is particularly repugnant because this is exactly what encourages more NCNS.

What the guy did to you was wrong. It really has nothing to do with the other lady.  He had an appointment and he didn't show up.  It doesn't matter if he was with another provider or bowling. He was supposed to be keeping his appointment with you.

Sounds like a black-listing offense to me...in addition to being exceedingly rude and just plain stupid...

But they are correct.
I have a major peeve on BOTH sides for NCNS.
This is one of the negative aspects of the hobby that we can all do without.
It is an offense that warrants a BL entry, but the decision is yours.

what kind of lie he would make up?

It really does not matter why he did not show. If I was to miss any of my appointments, I would call and sincerely apologize for my mistake. If he does not have the common decency to respect your time, how do you expect him to respect you as a person person. BLACK LIST him