Re: End of Date Etiquette

well Id have no problem if you simply said you had to go..I'd get the message and be professional about it. it's wrong to keep you longer than what I paid for so I'd understand..etiquette-wise I guess the most polite way and honest way is to simply say "look at that, the time just flew by..its about time I get going" but say it with a smile : ] in a humorous type of way. ya know? that way ur client would get the message (if he had brains) and would let u off.

If you are new and haven't internalized the rhythm of the standard 60-120 minute date create a play list on your laptop.  The songs will signal how your date is progressing.

Don't look at the clock.
Don't look at his watch.
Don't nervously twitch if you have something booked 30 minutes after his departure.

Put on your silk robe and ask if you may run him a shower.

Pick up his shorts and undershirt, fold them casually as you're giving detachment kisses, pull a towel down for him, place his things on the bathroom counter - and he will know that his contracted for time is winding down.

If you are new I would suggest that you space your appointments generously so that you may learn exactly how much time it takes for you to physically recuperate, clear your mind of the previous interaction, clean and renew your incall space, replace towels/linens and re-bathe/dress/make yourself up.  

Spacing appointments generously does not mean feel obligated to let everyone remain with you over contracted time.  

Get into the good habit of honoring your time commitment; save the time benefits for especially nice clients who you enjoy.

I find that "now .. where are those panties?" sends as good signal as anything else

XoXo

Lina

I see an absolutely lovely lady whose technique is to excuse herself for a moment to say she's calling the agency to let them know that we're almost done. I don't think she actually makes the call but uses the tactic to avoid telling me to get ready to leave.