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Re: Done With The Wild Side
ramza 3 Reviews 1746 reads
posted
1 / 15

There are a lot of women on BP and other sites that aren't review, probably 10-20% out there seemed to be reviewed.  What is your though process?  You like to live on the wild side?  Go for it?

serpius 495 reads
posted
2 / 15

Hey Ramza,

I'm done doing the wild side.

After getting ripped off twice by 'cash and dash' deals, I'm sticking with TER.

My thoughts? It's a HIGH RISK if you meet ladies from Backpage or something similar.

Stick with places like TER and your risk is reduced, but not completely eliminated.

Serpius

Posted By: ramza
There are a lot of women on BP and other sites that aren't review, probably 10-20% out there seemed to be reviewed.  What is your though process?  You like to live on the wild side?  Go for it?

Dr Who revived 455 reads
posted
3 / 15

Just thought you might want to know that!

A mall is just a mall.

Do your research...back channel and ask around.

Nothing in life is a guarantee...aside from death and taxes.  And you can avoid the taxes when you die.  Let your heirs deal with that problem!

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 467 reads
posted
4 / 15

BP itself is not the problem. As CCPA said, it is just an ad mall (like eros, cityvibe and others). Wherever you find them, just research them and make sure they have reviews.

If you are a seasoned vet and want to TOFTT, then Go for it. Somebody gotta give a gal her first review! But the guys who do TOFTT have developed their own skills and instincts to eliminate or at least reduce the chances of having a bad encounter.

And there are some who do live on the wild side, and like to gamble. They are willing to take some risks in order to discover the Occasional hidden gem.

JeffEng16 22 Reviews 372 reads
posted
5 / 15

I'd count again.  Unless you  are into getting repeatedly burned, I'd do the research of reading reviews, and possibly PMing people for information.  If they don't have reviews move on.  If you decided to operate seeing serial providers with no reviews, (and the pictures on BP for the most part are ridiculous when they're real and often they aren't), I predict the outcome will be you'll quickly switch to doing research.  One 10-20% that is accurate about BP is that 10-20% have no pictures available even when you hunt them with "name" and phone number and tineye.

spooner2112 9 Reviews 338 reads
posted
6 / 15

What about unreviewed providers from P411? I noticed there are a couple of providers listed on P411 who are visiting my city. They have professional, well done websites and list rates/policies which all seem to indicate they are reputable, but they specifically state they prefer to remain unreviewed for discretion.

Seems like these providers would be much less risky than unreviewed Eros or BP girls, but I'm still hesitant. Anyone have any experience?

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 455 reads
posted
7 / 15

In the key word box, use reviews or reviewed. I have found legit providers will normally mention the fact that they have reviews. However, never assume if the ad says "well reviewed" or "reviews" it's the truth. Many bp advertisers are counting on the fact you will not actually read her reviews if in fact she has them. However, experienced well reviewed providers who understand the usefulness of bpadvertising  will normally mention they have reviews. BP is a minefiled, but once you learn how to search on bp and then do research on a bp advertiser you'll be ok. BTW, I use in often. Finally as far as picture verification sites, I prefer to use google/images, it seems to do a better search than tineye.

kendradc2011 See my TER Reviews 381 reads
posted
8 / 15

Sign up on datecheck and p411 where your safety is even more enhanced. These days living on the wild side is a recipe for disaster. The economy has positioned people to do things they wouldn't normally do, don't be on the receiving end.

JeffEng16 22 Reviews 366 reads
posted
9 / 15

Some people may have better luck from BP then I've had with 3 burns and two posted reviews of them exactly as the burns took place. TER wouldn't let me call them ripoffs because I didn't leave immediately but they were ripoffs in every sense of the word; you lost your money and you got nothing but abuse.  Unfortunately, people who see "Eva" in her different locations as she moves around or gets booted out of the places where she runs her scam, don't read TER yet are members and could have avoided the scam had they read reviews.

To be sure Google or Bing images may yields pics, and my best luck so far hasn't been with Tineye which can help, but simply putting the name and the phone number in.  You'll often find the provider for her own reasons has moved around or not, and has had several different names or not.  There are often a lot of sources for her pictures, and regrettably sometimes the TER  profiles have one or two websites that have long since disappeared off the web, and you're left to hunt for pics.  
I hear an awful lot about providers "keeping up their profiles", including TER telling me that several times on problem reports with mismatches, between profiles and reviews, but I think in fact most providers don't correct their profiles either if they offer a service that is reflected in the review or not the profile, or they don't offer it, or want your milage to very.  I haven't found that many providers so far offer different experiences or fail to offer what a number of consistent reviews reflect they do offer.

It seems that the majority of provider web sites offer pretty small pictures with the face obscured, and I understand the rationale of obscuring the face or cutting the head off at the neck for a number of providers, but not the rationale of making your pics tiny and really hard to view.

JeffEng16

KSM46 33 Reviews 418 reads
posted
10 / 15

on the word "TER".  If a woman does not list TER reviews, I have no interest to pursue further.

JeffEng16 22 Reviews 462 reads
posted
11 / 15
TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 384 reads
posted
12 / 15

...... I either have review ID or reviewed in my ad or I just tell them search my name and profile # : ex. Mocha 146836 and first results should be my TER profile and site.

BUT p.s. just because a lady doesn't put a id number (ter id number) doesn't mean she's unreviewed she just might not be reviewed here (I have some here on TER but recently also picked up a review on 2 different/other review sites).

fallonkelly See my TER Reviews 500 reads
posted
13 / 15

We are VERY limited in what we can say in our ad on BP.  I consistently use BP because it works so somebody is using it.  
I believe I say that I am well reviewed in my ad, but I can't mention website names including my own or they will take the ad down.  "I do say in my ad, to search for me by name to find my online world...."

So I wouldn't limit your searches so drastically by using the word TER or any other site specifically.  
I also find that most gents who are VIP here or on the other top review and referral sites seem to look at BP first then go from there.  BP works if you use it correctly.  Cross check for references....!

cumberlandblues 8 Reviews 404 reads
posted
14 / 15

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
...... I either have review ID or reviewed in my ad or I just tell them search my name and profile # : ex. Mocha 146836 and first results should be my TER profile and site.

BUT p.s. just because a lady doesn't put a id number (ter id number) doesn't mean she's unreviewed she just might not be reviewed here (I have some here on TER but recently also picked up a review on 2 different/other review sites).
There was a recent review in something like BP for a provider that didn't indicate she had reviews, but she was so hot I looked up her phone number.  She did have a review (somewhere), which was, basically:  went and saw this provider. She is gang affiliated and has a gang affiliated pimp close by.  You are putting yourself at risk seeing her.  

Too bad because she was hot hot hot and I still see her ad out there.  Thankfully TER has taught me very important survival skills....

Sometan54 378 reads
posted
15 / 15

I agree, using the same phone number gives a level of serenity. I enjoy the first look without knowing for sure. Surprised no comments on ladies with references needed. Feels like my first job, no experience no job offer or no references no fun.

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