What do you have to worry about? If you are clean, polite and have the donation any good lady is going to show you a great time.
Honestly you need to stop worrying about the things you have no control over in the hobby. What a woman thinks deep down inside about you, herself and the job she is doing is something you have no control over. Whether a provider CARES about your looks or not is irrelevant. It is her ability to do her job well and show you a great time that matters.
Hobbying is not dating. She is not looking for a BF or a handsome guy to help her make beautiful children with. It's P4P. She wants your money.
This q is really for the providers...ladies, do you ever worry yourself over what a client will look like before you meet them? I don't mean hygeine...assuming they're hygenic. I mean general looks. If an "ugly" guy opens the door do you go "Aaagh!" to yourself and think let's get this over with.
I'm no Prince Charming...don't think I'm "ugly" but I just wonder. I've only been with one provider so far and I thought about that. Takes a little of the fun out of it me worrying.
What do you have to worry about? If you are clean, polite and have the donation any good lady is going to show you a great time.
Honestly you need to stop worrying about the things you have no control over in the hobby. What a woman thinks deep down inside about you, herself and the job she is doing is something you have no control over. Whether a provider CARES about your looks or not is irrelevant. It is her ability to do her job well and show you a great time that matters.
Hobbying is not dating. She is not looking for a BF or a handsome guy to help her make beautiful children with. It's P4P. She wants your money.
I always prep myself for the worst when I meet clients so that when we meet I'm actually pleasantly surprised.
If "the worst" opens the door then my alter ego kicks in... Kinda like Sasha Fierce to Beyonce. I become a sex goddess whose punishes those unloyal to her with orgasms...
In doing this for about a year now I have had two clients where I had that thought in my mind. It wasn't about their looks so much as it was hygiene and attitude. When someone isn't the best looking I focus on their attributes, like maybe they have a great smile or hair, etc. A true GFE provider can see through faults and find your triumphs and make you feel like you are the hottest guy on the freaking block, simply by gazing up at you while on her knees, smiling when you talk, and just showing you that you are so deserving.
Thanks for the feedback. I knew it shouldn't matter...I've only done this once so far and she made me feel very comfortable. But some of you providers are just so smokin' hot (and much younger) that it's intimidating for a newbie.
I was married for 20 years so I guess it's just a matter of time and experience with me to get comfortable and realize it's all about me during these meet-ups. And someone said if they didn't make me think I was the hottest guy on the planet, they might get bad reviews...I agree with that.
It is much more important to me that you have a good sense of humor, be kind and considerate. I would much rather spend my time with a gentleman who makes me laugh, even if he is not considered a prince charming type, than to be with a "hunk" who has no manners, is arrogant and thinks only of himself. That goes for my civie life as well. I married a hunky, drop dead gorgeous guy and he quickly became the ugliest person ever in my eyes after living with him for a while. That was twenty years ago, now I go for the nerdy type guys, they are way more fun and much better lovers!
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