can you tell immediately if you meet a hobbyist if they find you attractive or not or they like what they see? If not, do you try to still treat them well so they will will differently or will you treat them poorly since you know they might not be returning clients?

pages of reviews with similar scores you can get a very good idea of what her sessions are like.

I don't think any ladies on this board will say they change what they do if they don't think the guy will be returning.

tc

Not sure you would have a way of really knowing, especially right off the bat.

Reading your subject and text, do you mean if they discriminate (i.e. white/black) or find you attractive, or not? I think you're generally safe if your photos are representative of how you look. I'd even be OK if the photos weren't of you, as long as that was mentioned up front.

Regardless, I think you'll find the best providers are good at focusing on something about the client they like. Such as my personality, instead of on my hairy butt. This is what makes a great ptovider truly great. They just love men. All shapes and sizes, w/out regard for physical attributes.

Obviously, they all have limits, but I think those lie mostly with how the client treats the provider. Troll the general discussions, and you'll probably find several threads on this.

FWIW, I know a couple of ladies who have told me that they knew a guy was going to go on to their DNS lists as soon as the appointment was over. They still showed him a good time because (a)they are true pros and (b)they don't want a guy to write a bad review!

what would some of the reasons be why they would immediately go on that list? Bad hygienes?

It's your list, so whatever reasons you deem appropriate to your business model.

I would post this for providers, but I would guess that the primary reasons might be:
 - safety & security
 - hygiene
 - other/personal

The problem, is if you get too selective, then you can't sustain the business end. Assuming this is the only/primary income source.

What I wonder is if you're ready for this as a business venture. This is not easy work, physically or emotionally (I am guessing from my perspective). Again, I would post some questions for the ladies under the general discussion boards.

Bad hygiene, too rough, over-stayed, just plain creepy.

by too rough do you mean too aggressive sex? In that case would it be better to have the provider lead rather than the hobbyist so that way it won't get to that point?

Guys who are too rough are not interested in letting the provider lead. They walk in determined to do whatever they want for as long as they want with total disregard for the fact that they are having sex with a woman, not a rubber fuck doll.

They will get their 60 minute appointment but it will be the only one they get.

some guys think a 60 minute appointment is supposed to be 60 minutes of fucking in as many positions as possible.  Providers are human beings, not rubber dolls with holes.  Providers should be treated as ladies.  Some guys also force providers to do things beyond their boundaries.  Get it?

"what would some of the reasons be why they would immediately go on that list? Bad hygienes? "

Here is a list of 10 reasons providers have told me over the years why they would DNS a client

1-bad hygiene

2-Shorted the provider cash

3-Was too rough during the session

4-Too demanding and kept asking repeatedly for something "like CIM or greek or bareback FS" when he was already told NO

5-Too nosey and trying to to get into the providers personal life

6-Racial issue (he may be black and the provider does not see black guys but she did not know it at the time)

7-Physically just too obese and the provider just has a preference not to see obese men

8-Semi-Drunk or high at the time of the appointment when she shows up.

9-Wants a discount next time you see him

10-Mentally unstable.