[details edited out by mod] who also had been mentioned on ter, and got a good massage just no happy ending.

What is the proper way to ask, code words? Would like to go again but get the good part of the massage, she seemed to rush me out the door also????????

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Usually, its unspoken to get a happy ending. You just message your man first & see where she takes it. She is TER mentioned, but was unclear as to the details of the review. You should check the details of the review from any provider, that way you know for certain about the outcome of your visit.

If your already naked and message your own man, don't be afraid to ask her since you are already naked. There is no code word for a happy ending when your already naked and erect. Also, I would not recommend seeing her again, any provider that rushes their clients speaks volumes of the kind of person and service they offer. I have had many quick finishes, and stayed the entire time just talking and cuddling and such--so, don't go back and write the review, the community benefits from your review.

I know ladies here in Canada that just provide massage only. Others ladies give the option of a massage with or without a "Happy Ending". There is no harm in asking if done politely so you are not disappointed.

Now rushing you out the door is very unprofessional and you paid for the time and should have received the full time you paid for.

Lexy

Since your post was edited by the MOD, I don't know if some of this information was included.
Are you VIP?  So you can read the details of the review?  
Some ladies are a bit nervious about HE if it is your first visit, but you usually get the HE.  It's still pretty much verboten to discuss but actions speak louder than words.
Was she at least topless?  Did she allow some touching?  Sometimes you must initiate by touching her tummy, lower back or bottom.  Did she allow this or not?
Usually a FBSM practitioner will brush very near your A-hole on the back massage...  They will brush your privates "accidentaly" on the front massage, show a bit of skin...  if this happened & she still shut you down, she may have freaked that it might be a sting.

I have to agree. If you upgrade to VIP you can see the entire review but with every review you are aware YMMV!! Every encounter is different and should be unique and mutual, in my opinion. If you don't have VIP, I would send a very polite email to the lady you are interested in and ask, as any very polite gentleman would. What harm can it do, if written in a polite manner.

Lexy