Something I really enjoy is DATY. Are there any DATY techniques, say in video, to show how to properly doing it? I found an ebook "Learn 2 Lick" that looks good, but a bit expensive. Any thoughts?
What about finding an experienced escort that could teach me? Not sure if she would be willing, though.

Your best option is to find a woman willing to help you learn first hand, provider or not.

All I can tell you is that teasing her is important; don't dive right into the action.
As for the tongue technique, vary the pressure, speed, and rhythm.

I'm sure you can "find" that book online if there's an ebook version of it, but that's if you really want to read.
Definitely better to get out there and practice and ask a provider for some guidance.

Why wouldn't an escort be willing to "teach" you how to DATY?
The time is yours and it's not like you're requesting anything unsafe.



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Glad to meet a fellow "licker" LOL!

Yes, there are lots of books, videos and online resources if you wish to pay for them. IMHO, there is no "perfect" technique, as each woman does vary a bit in what they like. The best technique is practice with a willing partner. There is a TER post link below with some simple suggestions to keep in mind which may be helpful. Good luck and continue to have fun.

cunnilingus is an acquired art..every woman is different..every clit is different..every "magic button" varies..experiment..she will let you know if you have the right technique or not..

Listen to her moans and pay attention to how her body moves. If she pushes away for a second you may have done something that doesn't suit her.
I would never read a book or watch a video on how to do it. Put your head between a girls legs, start slow and pay attention.

MM

http://xhamster.com/movies/605066/how_to_preform_cunniligus_lick_pussy.html

There's another one I would actually recommend as well.  It looks like clips of it can be found under the "related videos" bit of the video linked to in the above post.  Some porn industry veterans all team up and provide insight and tips on "how to eat pussy like a champ."  I know Nina Hartley and Ron Jeremy are in it, Sunny Lane I think, and quite a few others that I'm forgetting.  Was helpful information for me as I've not had the opportunity to go down on a lady yet.  Hope to change that very soon!  So don't take my advice as personal experience, what I'll write up is some general info that most seem to agree on.

Most of these instructional bits though keep some of the same things in mind.  First, don't start off with an all out assault on the clit.  It's stressed that the same amount of nerve endings in a man's cock are found in the much much smaller clitoris.  AKA you can very easily overstimulate it.  It's best to start off with light kisses.  Kiss the boobies, and light kisses around the thigh area and around the clit.  Your indicator for how well you're starting off is how wet her panties get  Once she's more in the mood, then it's okay to start gently licking/sucking on the clit.  Again, don't try to overstimulate her.  Like other people said as well, every girl is different.  Some girls can get off with only clitoral stimulation, other girls may need a few helping fingers, some also like to get their pussy lips licked and sucked.  Obviously you can ask what she prefers, but the best way to figure it out for yourself is with how her body moves and her moans.  You'll know if you're doing a good job.  

I agree every woman is different. I'm an analytical person, so theory helps me to better understand.
I've gotten few compliments (30%) on my skills,  assuming they are accurate - I'm not counting
Those fake Os - so It makes me think there is room for improvement.
In my situation, daty is only an option with providers, so it cannot be as often as I'd like, hence I want
To have some good advise so my learning curve accelerates. Life is short ...

I have found maybe 5 out of..I am not saying how many men, who know exactly what to do down there, and it is because so many guys watch porn and think that's accurate. So far from it. Most women should know how to please another woman, but I've been shocked that many have no clue. Not all women like fingers, too much pressure on the clit, all that spitting and tongue twirling, and then some like exactly that.

I like to tell my suitors to play the vagina as you would run the baseball diamond, with the clit being home. You don't ever just park your ass on home and ignore all the other bases...they are there for a reason and a primer, before getting back to home.

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My favorite thing ever! I'd love to teach and let you practice on me, I'm very responsive