Okay this is the stupidest newbie question of all time but you know what they say about assuming....

If you book an incall with a SP and she is electing to get a hotel room are you responsible for the cost of the hotel room in addition to the cost of the date? I would assume that the answer is no but I dont want to make an ass of myself either. Any help from the vets or the ladies out there?

For incalls you are only responsible for the donation for the date and NOT the room cost.

Sometimes an in-call may be an out-call.  To prevent a paper trail a client will ask the lady to get a room.  In that case the room is on your dime unless she use the room to see other clients also.

BTW, it's been recommended that you never book the room and then let the provider stay there after you leave.  You will be responsible for any additional charges and damage to the room.

This s/b built into her rate, even if she is getting a room just to see you.

Though, I am relatively new to TER, I have been hobbying for 13 years. I have found that if the provider wants to have the room put in your name, trouble will certainly follow. And as a previous poster stated, if you do have the room put in your name, make sure she does not stay after you are finished.

There should never be any gray area about who is responsible for the room.  If you are seeing a lady who has rented a room for in calls for the day then you are not responsible for the room rental. It is part of her cost of doing business and seeing clients.  On the other hand, if she is getting a room for the sole purpose of seeing you then she may very well expect to be reimbursed for the room.  This is not unusual but it should be discussed up front, not left to the imagination.

NEVER get a room in your name and let the lady use it after the appointment unless you know her and trust her implicitly.

Tell the girl to get the room and you will split the costs .If you get one and she no shows you are screwed

The lady should provide the incall room, but I do have clients who will get the room and let me use it and theu just take out 100 of my rate, or the more generous ones will pay the room fee and my rate!  Generally though I get the room and pay for it, and you just show up and pay for me!

In my experience, IN calls a lady gets the room.  Once I had a smoking-hot lady (while explaining her rates) request compensation for the room.  It was stated that the room was only for our visit.  I did not see her because the total cost exceeded my budget at the time.
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If she is booking just to see me I should pay? Or as I believe this should be her cost of doing business and I should just expect to pay the donation?

Ultimately it seems the correct method is to ask the SP but then I feel like a cheapskate. OHHH the drama......

I dont think you should have to pay for the room unless you have requested a specific hotel and she is leaving when you leave.

I have worked in Las Vegas and that's an out-call town.  Anyone who wanted me to get a room for their appointment, paid for the room in addition to the gift and that's the case with just about every other provider I know.   Unless you both specify and agree that she's covering the cost for it.

If she's advertising incall and you go to her incall location, she covers the cost of the room.