I did as she told and filled out the form on her website, and there were no reply for a few days so I just sent her a polite email. She does not have any phone number available to contact her.
I really do not mind if she chooses not to see me, because that is what she chooses. This has happened to me before, and I was actually pleased by her honest, simple answer. All I wanted was a simply yes or no reply.
Could it be? She only checks her email once a week? something is going on?
Does she have current reviews? Does she have a current ad somewhere? Note: At some sites, the ladies persist forever. If not, she might have retired.
If she is active, then some ladies are just not good with communication. That is usually noted in the review, or rather, the opposite (easy to contact and schedule a date).
I will usually try to contact her a couple of times over a week or two. She could also be on vacation. The better ladies will give the courtesy of a reply, even if negative.
One of my ATF's, we had a good first contact. Then, I didn't hear from her, so I gave up. A few months later, I saw her post on a local board, so I contacted her again. She replied that she remembered me, and I've been a happy camper ever since. I've gotten to know a lot about her, and I understand how she is. Now that I'm a "regular", contact is easy, though can be delayed. She can be quite frustrating if you are new to her.
Some ladies forms have an asteris by every spot that needs to be filled out. If it is not, she will simply pass by yours if she is busy. Do try again.
Since you are a newbie many providers will not see you. I myself love you guys and have found long lasting friendships. Sometimes an agency works well for a newbie.
Are you VIP? With VIpP you can do a better job of reaserching.
Here's a hint! Go to ladies in your area and pick out the ones you want to see. Now check the guys who wrote reviews. If their history starts with her...Bingo, she sees newbies
Sometimes it's a lot of work but well worth the effort!
I've had a few instances where I contacted a lady through her "form", and got no response. After one follow-up email, I figure that she's not going to reply, and move on. If you haven't heard anything within 3-4 days, you probably won't.
Some ladies are just better at being a business woman. There is no review category for business skills. Appearance and performance are one thing, but if it is too dificult to set up the date, move on.
I feel your pain. I did research on a lady that is coming in my area at the end of the month. I sent her a very nice informative email with a reference provider who told me she knew her well. After a week no reply. So after posting on this board on what I should do I sent her another email asking for a reply good/bad. After 2 weeks no reply. So as someone suggested I moved on and I did. I had a set up for today for it to only be cancled. I'm learning real fast not all providers "provide" no matter how good a job you do to contact them. I'm just real glad that my 1st provider was so sweet, honest and saw me right away. Seeing her again next week. Lesson learned.
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