Just losing your virginity - so-so.

But, meeting with a favorite / regular to learn, tune and perfect the art of love making? I would suggest 4 to 6 meetings.

But then again, what the hell do i know.

*giggle*

xxoo

Christine (& Hubby Alex Too)

Hobbying can be addicting, so don't start an addiction you can't afford.

If he has waited that long, he is probably waiting to give it up to the one... so I would say no.

If he is still a virgin because he has less than average pick-up skills, then I don't see a problem with it.

Of course the answer could depend on why he is one and will he still be one at 30???

IF he is otherwise normal, then no.  It is way better when you believe that you and she are in love.  No need to steal the beauty of youth from this person.

Would you break your daughter in with a client???

I don't recommend it, but I don't exclude the option either.  You gotta do what you gotta do.  And if hiring a provider is necessary to initiate yourself into the world of sex, have at it.  If you can't lose it to "someone you love and care about" (I swear to god, this is so cliche), what's the alternative?  Of course, here's what I ended up doing: lowering my standards dramatically, and losing it to someone I had no feelings or physical attraction for (she showed interest, and I jumped at the opportunity).  But my drive to get rid of the V-card managed to keep me "up" until completion.

While it was free, it left me a bit disoriented and let down.  I was expecting massive fireworks, and all I felt was wet sparklers.  I wasn't even sure what to make of it.  I think it even turned me off sex for a few months.  But about a year later, I decided to see a provider. It was as different as night and day: I was wildly aroused the whole time, walked out of the hotel room with a goofy grin on my face, and had to compose myself before I could even drive.

Going back to the first paragraph.  Everyone says it's supposed to be with someone you love and care about.  But how is my way of losing the V-card and hiring a provider different?  My way was free (excluding the dinner I paid for), but so what?  It was nothing like everyone says your first time is supposed to be like.  Instead of sacrificing a few hundred dollars, I sacrificed my standards.  So why romanticize it?

A note to the original poster.  If you've got the charm to pick up girls, this is all a non-issue.  But since you're even mentioning providers, it's probably not the case.  So man up, make a decision that works for you, and don't get discouraged by the personal attacks on here.

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The first time I had sex with anybody but myself was when I was on R&R from Vietnam in Bangkok, Thailand.