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How can I make sure ahead of time that my fetish is ok?
munchmastermike 1901 reads
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Pretty simple question.  I'm into facesitting...I want to find a provider who will ride my face so I can lick her until she cums, preferably several times.

I'm not sure how to make sure in advance that a provider will be into this.  I figure most ladies like to get eaten out, but there is an issue of psychology involved--I just don't want one to show up and then say "Oh, wait, I'm supposed to dominate you with my pussy for a whole hour...?  Seriously?"

It seems complicated because most provider ads have caveats like "We will not discuss specific services ahead of time."

Any clues as to how I can make sure?  Any providers into this?

magic4u1184 reads

If you don't have TER VIP, then do so. That way you can read up on that providers sexual details. If it says she allows DATY then you may be able to do what it is you're asking.

If her reviews still don't give a clear picture of what you can do DATY, then you're going to just have to take that chance, or maybe contacting some of the hobbists who seen her before through here.

My advice since you seem to be new at this, only see well reviewed providers.

Good Luck!

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mrfisher841 reads

I think that if you see gals who are doms as well as escorts, you might be OK, but it will still be a maybe kind of thing.

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maturebridgette712 reads

if she mentions fetishes, and or role-play.. You will have a head start.. And no, your request is not weird...

:D

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shudaknownbetter927 reads

But one is never certain until you are both naked between the sheets.
No, do not start this subject in advance.
skb

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Ashley2010895 reads

This goes beyond DATY. You are a pussy slave
This is going to be difficult to non explicitly convey to a provider.
Tell the provider you are submissive who is into body worship. She should get the hint from there.

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JLee567437 reads

Wasn't looking for exactly the same thing when I started but closely related. It was my main reason for doing it so I can understand where your head is at (both of them). Finally found what I was looking for, more than once actually.

I figured I probably ought to stay away from providers that seemed to be strictly GFE. I don't know about you but I never had a girlfriend who wanted to do that.

I figured if you saw "fetish and fantasy", "light domination", or even PSE it was a pretty good bet they'd be happy to do it. Like I said, it worked for me.

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JLee567655 reads

And also, BTW, I discovered that the rule about mentioning these things beforehand isn't as cut and dried as you think, I think especially when it comes to "fetish and fantasy". I figured that a lady who advertised fetish and fantasy might actually appreciate having some idea of what you had in mind so without being overly explicit or going into a long discussion I made it known. Turns out I was right about that too.

Not only that, one provider told me to tell her everything and be as explicit as I wanted to be.

This could end up being bad advice for you, but again, it worked for me.

-- Modified on 11/27/2010 8:49:44 AM

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MistressKiley570 reads

Being a fetish provider, I agree with this :) Facesitting is much more than just DATY, there is a certain "attitude" that goes along with it, as with most other fetishes, and I prefer to know in advance at least some of the fetish desires a visitor has, so I can make sure I am prepared ;) If someone has some very spcific desires, I try very hard to accomodate those desires, and the more info I get, the better the time can be for both of us.

And I love facesitting, so if you are ever in Phoenix...;)

Related Link: http://websd-mistresskileycom.webs.com/

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